Forever my boyfriend and I...and his sister?

[Deleted]

we need more lesbian/incest/threesom themed threads imo

[pocky_rin]

If the boyfriend and sister are talking about it being the 3 of you in the next house, then you have to sit down with your boyfriend and explain calmly that you would like it to be the 2 of you in the new house only. If he starts making excuses and saying "where will my sister go etc" , just ask him to talk it over with her and leave it at that. Don't push the issue so you are being the calm one in this. If the sister at any point gets mad or irrational during their conversation, you have won by staying calm. It will then work out.

[Deleted]

If you resort issues this unpretentious to MMO-C off topic forums then you really should reconsider the marriage.

[Seirith]

[QUOTE=GG4Eva;21758105]Or will it always be the three of us?[QUOTE]


No one on this forum can answer that question because we are not you, your boyfriend or his sister. You talk about him as being your husband one day and buying a house together but you are unable to sit down and talk with him about something that you are unhappy with? Before you get married I would suggest working on your communication skills with each other. Not being able to talk to each other openly about your feelings and wants is not a good way to start a marriage.

Also, if he says yes, she will be coming with us, what will you do? Are you prepared to end the relationship if she will always live with you because in essence you will be married to him and her?

[cashzilla]

isn't it weird that your boyfriend lets his sister in on... wait what?

[Deleted]

Talk to your boyfriend. If that's a problem, don't get married.

[Velaniz]

You need to talk this out with your boyfriend and/or her. It'll probably be easier than you think. Both of them are aware that this isn't going to be a long-term arrangement (or at least they ought to be). Bring up the subject in a "When do you think your sister will be getting her own place" kind of way, rather than a "She doesn't do the dishes and I want her out" one. If you can't bring up the subject of living alone with your boyfriend without him getting inordinately jittery and upset over it, then it might be a sign you two aren't ready to be married yet.

[Skippy88]

I liken it to Chess. You have multiple moves at your disposable but which ones will lead to your desired outcome. Perhaps instead of taking giant steps maybe take baby steps. For instance, try to help her find a steady job. That should hopefully trickle down to her having more money which makes it easier to get her own place. Also, try to get her own boyfriend. Once again that should trickle down to her wanting to move out so she can be with her boytoy.

Try to get your boyfriend onside but you might also want to talk to their mother as well. She could be a useful ally as well.

[Mazar]

Just tell her she's disgusting! That's all you can do

[GG4Eva]

Thank you for everyone's suggestions. People also seem to have misunderstood my story. It's not that I want to kick her out of the apartment we are in now. It's that my boyfriend and I have plans to move to a new place and his sister states she wishes to join us. Her job doesn't pay her enough to have her own apartment.

[You can call me V]

Um... is his sister hot? Maybe it's his step sister...

[Pull My Finger]

They both sleep with your parents.

Joking aside. You should definitely talk to him first and get him to understand. Then you can both talk to her. It's basically a shared flat arrangement right now and there has to be some sense of hygiene and order that everyone has to be able to agree upon.

If I was getting married and moving to a new place with my wife, I wouldn't want anybody joining us, I guess that's kind of natural.

[Spl4sh3r]

I don't get why people always want a house, so much more work. However I do agree that you should tell your boyfriend. His sister can't live with you forever. Should the sister's boyfriend move in with you aswell when she gets one?

[Deleted]

urgh if you had been talking about my sister like this i would kick you out in a heartbeat and yes you sound selfish wanting him to letdown his family. But this is from a guy that values hes family very much.

[Vargur]

Sounds more like a great night.

What's a midget to do? /o\


If he loves you, he will do something about it. If you're straight forward and sincere.
Also next time, don't make porn titles.

[You can call me V]

So the sister isn't hot?

[Lily Crowley]

You need to stand your ground here. If you want just the two of you to move to the new house, you need to talk it over with your boyfriend and see how he feels. Preferably he should feel the same but he may be concerned where his sister would go. I also caught from one of your replies here that her job doesn't pay enough for her to have her own place. At that I just want to suggest she move in with her mother when time comes and while there, she can look for a better paying job or go back to school. She can't impede on your lives forever.

Also, for now, have a talk with her about some hygienic and cleaning standards. I feel really sorry for that dog, and your couch.

[You can call me V]

You need to stand your ground here. If you want just the two of you to move to the new house, you need to talk it over with your boyfriend and see how he feels. Preferably he should feel the same but he may be concerned where his sister would go. I also caught from one of your replies here that her job doesn't pay enough for her to have her own place. At that I just want to suggest she move in with her mother when time comes and while there, she can look for a better paying job or go back to school. She can't impede on your lives forever.

Also, for now, have a talk with her about some hygienic and cleaning standards. I feel really sorry for that dog, and your couch.

I'm going to attempt to be serious in this thread for a moment. Simply put, blood is thicker than water. If I had a sister (which I don't) that needed help, and I had my GF complaining about it... see ya honey. Seriously, I would never throw my own blood out just to make a GF happy. Maybe the man in this relationship needs to stand his ground.

[Deleted]

You need to talk to your boyfriend, but have realistic expectations: she was there first, she's his own blood, you are just the girlfriend, regardless of future plans, don't try to make this a situation in where he would have to choose, because he will choose his sister (if he's a decent person) So, be very careful with what you say/demand.

Good luck.

[GG4Eva]

I'm going to attempt to be serious in this thread for a moment. Simply put, blood is thicker than water. If I had a sister (which I don't) that needed help, and I had my GF complaining about it... see ya honey. Seriously, I would never throw my own blood out just to make a GF happy. Maybe the man in this relationship needs to stand his ground.

That's the thing. She is not asking she needs help. She is content with her job now and is not looking to improve. We were talking awhile ago and she basically wants to work there forever.