in between in usually a lounge. has music and you can dance if u want to dance in the area you're sitting but usually is not a real dance floor. In a real club you can't sit without paying for it... so its nothing great either unless you're a fist pumping, umm whats the word?
i think your leaving out a detail or 2. if all you did was be a wall flower and brood to yourself i dont see how she could have even gotten a little mad at you. you sure you didnt say anything like "i fucking hate this place" or "look at all these shitty jersey shore wannabees"
Tonight was the tipping point due to a accumulation of things. More backstory: She's very future oriented already has her own life planned out.. yet her priorities are all screwed up. I'm more-so on the lazy side and see college as a huge money pit that doesn't necessarily guarantee that return on investment. We bicker often.. but she cares about my life and my well-being. At least that's her reasoning behind pushing me to college. Mind you I have a stable job with a decent source of income.
She views work as; "Why should I.. I don't need the money." Which stems from the sheltered lifestyle. I can't hold that against her if her fucking parents decided to not instil those fundamentals earlier, ya know?
On a side note.. I didn't see to many jersey shore guys. Though if I had a dollar for every button up shirt I saw. xD
22 here. She's 19.
Yeah, clubs are like the worst place in the world to me too. Can't hear a word anyone is saying, I'm the only one not drinking, the music is so loud your ears hurt even once you're out... can't understand why people like it. I'm fine in relatively small parties with people I mostly know. Provided I can hear...
I don't think I could make a relationship work with someone who was that extroverted and liked that kind of thing.
I could go into crazy over-analysis mode (I'm just like you, sometimes you can't turn if off) but I'll only say this. If it's how you described it here, let her go and forget about it. As much as you're into her, it sounds like you two are completely different in your interests.
If you're not looking for advice and are upset over the night you had, well cheers to that. Could have been much worse!
So your obviously not the social outgoing type.
Explains why you don't like clubs.
I love talking to people, I'm just awful at the execution.
I love going to clubs with friends, would hate going alone.
The musics not very good normally, but I've had heaps of great nights.
and more OT about the relationship: I guess she just worked out your really not her type and it took that to figure it out.
We stopped searching for monsters under our beds when we realized that they were inside us.
Tell me something, my friend. You ever dance with the devil in the pale moonlight?
So, six of your friends are peeved that you're a wet blanket and you think it's the fault of people that actively choose to go out dancing that night because you don't like the shirts they wore?
Damn, son.
You have some shit clubs out there.
I regularly go to rock bars/clubs and the experience is simply amazing. Rocking out to extremely loud AC/DC, Guns and Roses and Bon Jovi while drinking Johnnie Walker Blue with friends and a ton of other people... priceless.
PS: The girl looks stupid, don't bother with her.
Last edited by haxartus; 2013-07-26 at 08:05 AM.
I've never understood the appeal of clubs. Much rather stay in with friends and play video games.