No, this is not a story about me, (happily married) this is just a thought I've had for a bit.
Boy meets girl, and at some point, it becomes not okay for that boy to meet another girl and go past a certain point. My question is - how do you define that point (I'm not talking about teenagers, but about adults)? And if such a point exists, then why do people get married? If marriage is about commitment, saying "I only want to be with you" then before you are married, are you saying "I might want to be with someone else at some point"? If you refuse to make the commitment of marriage, then why are you still bound by the exact same promises of faithfulness that are part of getting married?
I hear stories about people in relationships and about cheating and I just can't take it seriously. If you couldn't commit, then why is the field not open? What's the point of the commitment, then, if you had to follow the same rules all along?
Yes, I know a lot of people don't want to marry anyway or are against it, but for the people that DO want to get married someday, why is it considered cheating before married, or at least before being engaged?