I don't think that's accurate either. I surely respected the ex I cheated on, I still do. I think she's very smart, very honest, a beautiful person that deserves nothing but the best. I slept with someone else because I was a jerk that was attracted to someone (another ex that had gotten in amazing shape, I went to her birthday party and she was semi-tossing herself at me) and acted badly, not because of something I felt about her. Basically, me problem the whole way around, but not a reflection of what I thought of the girlfriend.