There is this girl in my guild and she has destroyed the guild I'm in from the inside with bitching, passive aggressiveness and enticing our GL about loot earnings.
The female healer in question really irks me. Tonight was one of the worst raiding experiences I've ever had with my guild, to the point where I'm considering to leave the guild.
She has really ramped up her ... flirtation. It's become obvious to me she is fixating on attaining the affection of our GM/RL. She doesn't really socialize with anyone else in guild, constantly addresses the GM only and has said a few things in guild chat that I've found just inappropriate, awkward and attention-seeking. I would not care if these things were taken to private chat but to see it all unfold in /gchat is very irritating.
For example, she talks about still being a virgin in guild chat, complains about guys who like her but she doesn't like back, and just today she credited herself with the departure of a few of our former members because the guys [who gquit] "felt she wasn't being treated right." Then mused on how "impressive" that was. Not really why they left but that's aside the point; they also left well over a month ago so how it was relevant to bring up I have no idea.
During raids, I feel she is just there to chat and garner more attention. I know that's a hard thing to prove but I'm certain of it. She plays horribly, makes mistakes repeatedly, and cannot compete as a healer. She made several inappropriate, overtly sexual and attention-seeking comments in raid, e.g. mentioning how she was offered 45k by someone on WoW to flash her boobs, discussed her breast size in raid and managed to conjure up whatever sexual innuendo she could.
She doesn't have a competitive DPS spec either, so we're 3 healing things that should be 2-healed.
I'm angry for a lot of reasons. The problem isn't just this girl or that she's tolerated.
I'm frustrated that I can't approach the GM with any of these issues. He has a stake in letting this bad female raider into raids. I am pretty sure I'd just be accused of being jealous or bitter or something that I'm not getting any attention.