What I can't seem to figure out is why sex is such a big deal when it comes to having it? Curse living in the South with all these Christian girls... Get me out of here.
Hey everyone
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I think there was a misunderstanding, and the way you "said it", sounded to her like
--> "I don't want to spend time with you(a month!) unless i get to to fuck you now, ill find someone else." (A walking pussy, her intrest, her personality didn't matter) that is what she heard.
Although i don't understand much of what happend, im confused.
“The worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I hate that.”
This is going to be an extremely unpopular thing to say, but since I don't particularly care about being popular I'll say it anyway. There's more to a relationship than sex dude. You say you want a "real" relationship but you don't actually want to put in the work to get there. That's what she's hearing, and she's kind of justified in hearing that based on what you're saying.
You don't want to wait for months to prove that the relationship is "real". Well get over yourself. Your not the only person in the relationship and you have to take her beliefs and how she wants to pursue the sex angle into account. If she thinks that you're just waiting to get sex, then that's going to color her perceptions and it's going to cause problems. Just take a step back a think about what you really want. There's more to life than sex, and if that's all you want there are plenty of ways to get it without getting into a relationship where that's your only goal.
“Fairy tales are more than true; not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.”
― G.K. Chesterton
I'm not just a white knight. I'm a freaking Paladin.
If all you want is sex, well, get a hooker. If you want a relationship be prepared to work at it. Don't like it? Tough. That's how it works, or that's how it should work. I make no bones about what I believe in regards to this kind of thing, and I make no apologies for it. Say what you will about it, but that's how I feel.
“Fairy tales are more than true; not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.”
― G.K. Chesterton
I'm not just a white knight. I'm a freaking Paladin.
Only that he didn't say ALL he wants is sex, just that it should be a part of a relationship. It IS a big part of a relationship. If by saying that this girls starts pretending all he wants girls for is sex, well then she's just being a douche really. Does that mean every girl has to spread her legs after 3 hours? Hell no, but you don't have to act like he's a douche either.If all you want is sex, well, get a hooker.
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Sir Robin, the Not-Quite-So-Brave-As-Sir-Lancelot.
Who had nearly fought the Dragon of Angnor.
Who had almost stood up to the vicious Chicken of Bristol.
And who had personally wet himself, at the Battle of Badon Hill.
Thing is... She was the one who approached me, asked for my number and was all into me whereas I was like okay she's seems cool maybe this will go somewhere. After 4 weeks it feels like it's going nowhere and she wonders why I feel the way I feel.
Hey everyone
Because, again, you're not the one she wants. Maybe she thought being near you would get the one she really wants more interested? Maybe she is getting no where with the one she really wants so decided to shop around, but its not satisfying? Maybe she was just bored? Lonely? Medicated?
It doesn't really matter how you got here. You're here now. If you are really that young, and not just bored, move on. Maybe that will get her interested in putting out. Maybe it won't. Life's too short.
Sir Robin, the Not-Quite-So-Brave-As-Sir-Lancelot.
Who had nearly fought the Dragon of Angnor.
Who had almost stood up to the vicious Chicken of Bristol.
And who had personally wet himself, at the Battle of Badon Hill.
Not even that. The bitch ultimately forced to him walk home on several occasions due to what was nothing more then a disagreement. She lacks any respect for this guy and he should let it go and move on.
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If only it were as simple as you make it.If all you want is sex, well, get a hooker
You're just having a conversation while in a car with her, sex comes up, you're honest about it, and she kicks you out of the car?
Bitch.
Try to have sex with her mom.