Originally Posted by
rogoth
epic douchebag of the day award goes to you sir, congratulations, your parents must be so proud of the pathetic individual they have raised.
to the OP, i understand exactly how you feel, while i'm in a similar situation as you personally regarding my health and living situation, my parents are still married, but i hate my father, and my mother is at her wits end as he is unwilling to change his ways, even after years of therapy, he slumps back into old habits, plus my uncle, dads brother, i see maybe once a year at best, main reason, because his wife wears the pants in his relationship, she can visit her brother who lives 45 minutes away from us, but they can't spend the extra time to come and see us, his youngest daughter, my cousin, i saw her just beforet he summer, she is now 8 years old, last time i saw her, she was still a toddler, these are direct blood relations, and she doesn't even know who i am or who my family are, other than she has some family in the north east and we are that family, i have told them privately that if they don't sort something out, that they may aswell not bother at all, and it is their loss not ours, basically it comes down to, your dad needs t owant to see you and your other family members, you can't force the issue, i understand that your health concerns mean that time is limited, and that complicates things, but it is his loss for not wanting to spend time with his family and you should let him go, he will realise what a mistake he has made and it will haunt him for the rest of his life, so take solace in that.