i'm in love with a married woman

[Ron Burgundy]

i know for a fact that she has feelings for me too despite her being married.

should i tell her how i feel or remain silent?

[NatePsy]

Better off showing respect to their relationship by not telling the woman. It's a very slippery slope if you try and get between the two of them. If she feels like she has feelings for you, then she would get out of the marriage with the guy. If not, leave it be and try and find someone else that's not in a relationship of that magnitude.

[Amnasty]

i know for a fact that she has feelings for me too despite her being married.

should i tell her how i feel or remain silent?

Life is short.... now I would never ruin someones chance at happiness, and all couples, all people deserve their shot at tried and true love. So I don't condone stepping in the way.

However, if it's true love, the forever kind, where you spend every moment thinking of spending time with this person, not just thinking about sharing a bed. Then you deserve to at least have your voice heard. Life is short, and love is a rare reward, and a precious gift. Fortune favors the bold....so I say to you sir....do something stupid.

Let her know, and let her know why, if she feels the same...then all's fair in love and war.

[ManiaCCC]

just bang her :P

..you know...to see what will happen next..

for science of course

[ripponesan]

Stop it!
You shall not covet your neighbours wife!

People like you are the reason why islamic dudes cover their women in Cloth.

[Amnasty]

just bang her :P

..you know...to see what will happen next..

for science of course

This is the adverse of what is okay.

If I was her husband... and knew you wanted her just for sex, and ruined my marriage... Id end your life....but if you really loved her...and she loved you... I'd be okay with it. Make sure her husband doesn't share my views if you go this route.

[Oktoberfest]

Find your own wife.

[Amnasty]

Stop it!
You shall not covet your neighbours wife!

People like you are the reason why islamic dudes cover their women in Cloth.

False.... he said he loves her..... he does not covet her...

cov·et
ˈkəvət/Submit
verb
1.
yearn to possess or have (something).

keep your bible off the forum, troll.

[logintime]

However, if it's true love, the forever kind, where you spend every moment thinking of spending time with this person, not just thinking about sharing a bed. Then you deserve to at least have your voice heard.

That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard in months. Taking the language of romantics as an excuse to justify moving in on another person's relationship is an epic level of terribleness. Firstly, wipe this idea out of "true love, forever love". History has long shown that even the most passionate candles can burn out, and that as much as you think this person is The One, there are plenty of proverbial fishes out in the sea who could compete.

Secondly, this should be the most basic of principles: don't move in on a married couple's relationship. Don't do it. You wouldn't appreciate it if someone else was doing this to you, so what gives you the right to do it to someone else? "True love"?

Thirdly, the above is just the most narcissistic tripe ever. Why do you deserve to have your voice heard? So that you can put her in an uncomfortable position, or throw her husband's life into a sudden tailspin, all so that you can maybe hook up with her? Don't be that selfish.

In short, OP should keep it to himself and look toward dating someone else. Within a couple months, this all might well be forgotten and he'll have someone else he's in love with, someone who has the benefit of not having a ring on her finger.

[Huntingbear_grimbatol]

i know for a fact that she has feelings for me too despite her being married.

should i tell her how i feel or remain silent?

Young kids involved? Hell no ( by young I mean still living with their parents)
No kids or old kids... Sure, but be clear that it's her choice and you'll stay away until she's made a choice.
If you 2 have been cheating on her marriage then you both deserve eachother. Poor husband...

[Stir]

Tough luck, Ron. Just let it be, let it be.
It'll pass.

[Ihnasir]

Believe me, you don't wanna fuck with a married woman. I have and I've been a factor in the deterioration of two marriages. (They wanted out anyway, but that's their deal)

[Deleted]

Judging by the threads he starts, Mr. Ron Burgundy sure has an...interesting life. Also, Ron, have you checked if you're up to 50% started threads ending up locked yet? Must be close to it.

[OneSent]

The lack of capitalization in your titles and thread subjects causes me to twitch.

[Amnasty]

That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard in months. Taking the language of romantics as an excuse to justify moving in on another person's relationship is an epic level of terribleness. Firstly, wipe this idea out of "true love, forever love". History has long shown that even the most passionate candles can burn out, and that as much as you think this person is The One, there are plenty of proverbial fishes out in the sea who could compete.

Secondly, this should be the most basic of principles: don't move in on a married couple's relationship. Don't do it. You wouldn't appreciate it if someone else was doing this to you, so what gives you the right to do it to someone else? "True love"?

Thirdly, the above is just the most narcissistic tripe ever. Why do you deserve to have your voice heard? So that you can put her in an uncomfortable position, or throw her husband's life into a sudden tailspin, all so that you can maybe hook up with her? Don't be that selfish.

In short, OP should keep it to himself and look toward dating someone else. Within a couple months, this all might well be forgotten and he'll have someone else he's in love with, someone who has the benefit of not having a ring on her finger.

False, I don't believe in letting things fall into your lap... letting happenstance rule my life. I believe if you deem something, someone, worth your while and not with invoking malicious harm on someone else, and your cause for all things aside is pure. Then don;t wait, take what you want, and show conviction.

It comes down to a Unstoppable force meeting and Unmovable Object, one can not exist while the other remains.

He will give it his all to win her, or hubby will stand firm and fight for what he holds dear.

Her choice is something entirely different.... if she moves from hubby so easily... it wasn't love and he's well rid of her.

Welcome to real life.

[Deleted]

Life is short.... now I would never ruin someones chance at happiness, and all couples, all people deserve their shot at tried and true love. So I don't condone stepping in the way.

However, if it's true love, the forever kind, where you spend every moment thinking of spending time with this person, not just thinking about sharing a bed. Then you deserve to at least have your voice heard. Life is short, and love is a rare reward, and a precious gift. Fortune favors the bold....so I say to you sir....do something stupid.

Let her know, and let her know why, if she feels the same..then all's fair in love and war.

Nice text there, but please, come here and start a thread if it's your wife he's interested in. I hope it is.

I just love when people eat their own words.

[Amnasty]

Nice text there, but please, come here and start a thread if it's your wife he's interested in. I hope it is.

I just love when people eat their own words.

I've had it happen to me... just recently actually. Girlfriend I loved with all my heart but there was someone she loved more, I happily let her go, because her happiness meant more to me then mine did.

[Ratyrel]

Don't get into it. Even if it does happen, chances are it'll simply haunt your relationship forever.

[Muis]

Just tell her and let her make the decision of carrying on her marriage or ending it for you ^.^

[Amnasty]

Nice text there, but please, come here and start a thread if it's your wife he's interested in. I hope it is.

I just love when people eat their own words.

Not to mention I've messed around with married women and married men. Once the woman, she chose the devil she knew and threw us cheating, she repaired her marriage.

The other time, the guy chose to be with me and not his wife, and I didn't want him...and saw the damage I did on both ends.

Like I said, life really is to short. Do what you have to do and live it the way that makes sense to you.