This isn't 'no consequence' at all, this can all wait till 18 years old. This isn't something that needs to be done now, I've known tons of people that when they were kids played with barbies and thought being a girl would be cool. Skip forward 10 years they are perfectly normal and completely lost thoughts on becoming a female. Why? Because their parents didn't think "Oh lets make our son/daughter a media sensation and possible scientific guinea pig".