My Grandma Just Told me I am Ugly

[geniebsmart]

we had a nice family dinner, when she flipped and said like ''look at ur cousin she's becoming a dr and is getting married soon, why cant u be like her etc etc''


I hate myself :cry:

[Jester Joe]

Sounds like a case of "Grandparents thinking they're saying the right thing because that's what they grew up with"

Sorry to hear that though

[Lunareste]

post a pic

[Templar 331]

Don't feel bad. Mine called me an asshole. I am though, so............

[tss]

She didn't call you ugly.

Stop being so sensitive.

[Auxis]

I know they say you should respect your elders, but she sounds like she needs to get over herself. It's her opinion, but you do what you want in life.

[Charge me Doctor]

She called you lazy, not ugly

[Jester Joe]

She called you lazy, not ugly

Could of been part of the etc etc etc part?

[SoulForge]

Who is grandma mooching off of? Tell her you are just like her. Just at a younger age

[Krolikn]

Give her a slap

[roflwaffle]

your grandma's a bitch. just gotta deal with it.

[Blueobelisk]

Maybe its because you ate too much ice cream.

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This isn't directed at you OP, but this is what I thought of from thread title:

Picture.

[Maxilian]

Dont mind it too much and if that does really affect you, think about these?

"Am i really ugly?, yes? well... can i change something to make myself feel good with myself? yes? DO IT, or if your answer is not to any of those question then... don't WORRY ABOUT IT!"

[Bathory]

Tell your nan that you're living your own life.

[Zeta333]

we had a nice family dinner, when she flipped and said like ''look at ur cousin she's becoming a dr and is getting married soon, why cant u be like her etc etc''


I hate myself :cry:

Put her in a home

[Krommm]

So you feel your sister is really hot or perhaps you are what grandma says. Really though, it sounds more like a case of comparing relatives.

"Why can't you be like X?!" is pretty common and is somewhat meant to motivate. (Sometimes it does, usually just makes people feel like shit.)

[Therealmagoo]

PPPPPPFFFFFFFFT thinks your family is bad, My mother decided to start a convo at the dinner table with me and my fiance with this simple line "I always thought he was a pedophile" right out of the blue. If you wanna feel sorry for someone , feel sorry for me.

[Mnevis]

My grandma told my mom, as a child, that the IQ test she'd taken had a error range of twenty points and that my mom had scored twenty points too high.

Sometimes you just gotta smile and nod at old people.

[xChurch]

Should have asked her why can't she be more like your other grandma.

[SpookySkeleton]

Well, maybe if you got a job and stopped wearing fedoras because you're a "nice guy" you would get someone.
Some people are just not attractive man, sucks to suck but that's just how it is.