This might be long just an fyi....
I'm 33 years old now, but back in high school I was the skinny kid. I weight 117 pounds at 5'8" when I graduated. I played soccer and basketball all through highshcool, but never really would hang out with the Jocks since they always thought they were better than everyone, and talking down to people all the time. As you know, the popular kids were always the ones that we "most likely to succeed" and all that crap.
I joined the Army as an Infantryman right after school. I wanted nothing to do with college at that time. I did really well in everything I did in the Army. Without going into detail, I got to go to a lot of schools you would normally only hear of in movies, or the history channel. I was deployed several times, etc. I was 117lbs when I joined, then by about 6 years later, I was weighing in around 175 do to working out all the time.
All this to say, I was always made fun of. Kind of quirky looking, not confident, etc. I had recently gone back to my home town after being gone several years and ran into one of the guys on the basketball team that had probably the biggest mouth. He always talked trash, very arrogant, etc. This guy was probably about 50 lbs over weight, had a few kids by different women, barely making ends meet. He asked, since I was in town, if I wanted him to gather up a few of the guys that lived close and get us all together one night. I said sure, why not.
We met up at a local place, They all looked about the same, as the first guy. Over weight, dead end jobs, etc. Some of the "popular" girls from back then came around too, same story, kids with no daddies, over weight, etc. Remember, all these people were the ones that were always arrogant, and all that mess. We had a good time I guess, reminiscing. That was probably 3 years ago.
Here is where my title and question comes in. Since that night, I keep getting an urge to go back home and just tell all those people off. Stuff like "you all used to think you were so good and better than everyone and now look at you." Of course that is cliche, but something a long those lines. Logically, I keep telling myself that doing something like that is immature, arrogant in it's own right, and just not necessary. But it's been several years and I still can't shake it. I'm the one that did something with my life, they wasted theirs.
Now don't think I look down on people that haven't had the same opportunities as me or made some mistakes. Much the opposite so please dont' take this the wrong way. I only feel like this towards those people I grew up with and I can't figure out why. Why do I feel the need to go tell them off? Again, I know ligcally it's stupid, but I can't shake it.
Anyone else experience something like this?