I've been texting this girl for a week who is a niece of someone from my work and we really hit it off straight away, we texted for 5 days straight, rang her a few times and I felt like I met someone really special. So we arranged to go on a date and try it and I was absolutely ecstatic at this and so was she, we were texting in the days up to it saying how amazing we both felt about each other and that we felt like we'd known each other for ages and how we couldn't wait. I need to emphasise here how much we liked each other, me and a girl from school were in love and this rivaled that, I felt like she was possibly going to be the girl I've been looking for. Anyway, she was into it so much that she said "if at any point on the date you feel like you want to kiss me then just do it, I hope I'm not moving too fast for you" so I took that on board and remembered that she said it (I'd never go that fast for a first date).
Anyway, we went on the date yesterday and to start off with it felt a bit awkward (as first dates do) and when I parked the car I asked her if she wanted to hold my hand which she did and then we went to sit on a bench in the shopping centre as it was a sunny nice day and we could chill out whilst waiting to go to the movies. I got her into a comfort zone here and we talked for about an hour very naturally and it felt awesome and we were both enjoying it. We then went to the movies and cuddled whilst watching in which I initiated with putting my arm around her (and she grabbed my hand whilst doing it and started playing with it and rested her head on my shoulder), so here I am thinking this date is going great and that I'm definitely going to kiss her (because she stated I could before, I don't go fast) and I do after we get to the car, it was just a quick kiss and nothing serious but she seemed to be disappointed that I didn't go full on. Thought about this whilst driving and pulled over and said "I can't have that be our first kiss" and then went for a longer kiss, went fine and I thought that she liked it. After that I drove and parked so that we could enjoy a view and just chill and we started cuddling whilst I was gently touching her arm and running it up to her shoulder and after a few minutes SHE kissed me with a full on kiss and smiled, not long after that SHE initiated another long kiss and even put her hand on my leg and neck. After that I had to take her home but here I was thinking that this date went well and she didn't talk barely for the journey home (I was starting some conversations and getting nothing really). I asked her to text/ring me if she wanted to do anything else and that I had a really good time and gave her a hug (she seemed to lean in for another kiss (not too sure here as I went for the hug)).
I text her that night just to say "night" and I already knew something was up before that because she texted me non stop and I didn't get anything from her house to my house and the time it took me to get ready for bed. Then today I was talking to her aunty that I work with and saying that I didn't think it went as well as it could but still good and the aunty said that she had text her and asked how it was and got the reply it was good and I enjoyed it or something similar. Then I get a text today saying that she thought it was too fast with all the kissing and holdhanding, so I'm here absolutely confused to the max thinking what I've done wrong when she's gave me all the signals and even told me to kiss her in a text.
I don't understand what she means here by too fast? Anyway, I said I had a good time and even though it wasn't the best I really enjoyed it and that we could try again and she can choose the pace and she's going to take a few days to think about it.
Do you guys think I did anything wrong here and has anything similar happened to you? I'm really confused to if I've suddenly become a complete moron with women or if I did nothing wrong.