Yes I created a new account for this.. I have friends on this forum don't want them to know...
Background information: Been with my wife for 2 years, dated for 4. We are no where near having children and are completely happy with that but will have them eventually.
I do not know where it came from but I am petrified of having children before we are financially ready and had always had 2 requirements for intercourse. 1st Being birth control for her (which she was already taking anyways), 2nd I always wear protection. Which in my head is the double defense I need to insure there are no mishaps.
In the last month she has brought up to me that 2 different friend groups of hers that she has shared this information with thinks having the 2nd requirement is ridiculous and unnecessary; I wanted some external input. Am I being irrational with this? Do you think it does or does not decrease the chance of having a mishap? It didn’t bother me at all until she has had outside input on it lol… and to answer anyone before they post it no I don’t care if she told her friends she has the right to share any of this as a mutual party in the process.