Most (almost all) people who are pro choice do not think a women should be able to terminate a pregnancy at any time on a whim. Most (almost all) feminists don't believe that men should be subservient to women. Most (almost all) conservatives don't believe mentally unstable people should be able to buy a gun with no waiting period.
We really don't need to be hyperbolic here, most (almost all) people are going to be reasonably rational even if the conversation on these hot button issues is typically refereed and furthered by fanatics.