If my significant other isn't independent or have stability, I see no reason to be with them.
and I'm a dude
If you have to ask on a forum, don't marry anyone..ever.
If you have to ask a forum full of random people, I think you are doing something wrong
for a second i thought you were my fiance...then i realize she doesnt go on these forums
phew
If you need random internet strangers to convince you, what the fuck do you think the answer is?
You're getting exactly what you deserve.