I need help NOW please!

[Lightwysh]

Honestly, own your mistakes. Don't hide from them or lie your way out. If your parents find something via Google, you'd rather lie to them vs owning up to your mistakes and being an adult?

[Ravenblade]

The Google+ thing is nothing for me to worry about. I deleted any trace of any activity that could make me look like a "sinner" in my mother's eyes, lol.
It's just the damn Myspace account that I made like more than 15 years ago when I was like 13 years old.
I can probably spin it and say it's not my account and someone from my class at the time probably hacked my account and wrote those things on there, like 15 years ago. I could say that. It could work. But I need to sit down on this a bit.

If your mother is in danger of dieing from a heart attack because of your teenage online antics then I daresay she is in great danger already, better not to make loud noises or sudden moves.

[Sicarius87]

My mother said she would die of a heart attack if she found out that I did "bad things". I obviously don't want her to die 'cause of me because that would be a shitty feeling. I live with my parents because I am unable to take care of myself because of reasons that I cannot get into.

She clearly didnt. Youre fine. Shes already found it and shes still alive. Yes?

[D-Throes]

Man up and tell them this is the 21th century. The OP can't be serious.

yup and also tell her: "Im sorry but this is Canada, so I am sorry about your heart attack eh sorry".
she will learn trust me...

[primalmatter]

How big are your parents into their religion? You looking at being disowned or set of fire?

[Rooflesstoofless]

God ain't gonna do shit but I can try to help you.

Start hunting down your accounts and setting them to private or deleting them. If they are linked to your google+ then you should be able to sign into them and delete/private them. As for myspace, I haven't used that shit in many moons so I can't help you there but I'm pretty sure you can recover your password and set things straight.

Also, two divorces? Seriously man, put your dick in it for a while before committing to it.

[Gaebryel Quintyne]

I'm interested in knowing your name and googling it.

I just realized... Are you friking kidding me? Why would I reveal my name on here so my parents can retrace it to my fake account where it's even worse stuff for them to find out about me... Hell no.

[I Push Buttons]

I just realized... Are you friking kidding me? Why would I reveal my name on here so my parents can retrace it to my fake account where it's even worse stuff for them to find out about me... Hell no.

What have you done to your parents to make them distrust you so much as to do this deep of a search for your online presence?

[Gaebryel Quintyne]

If you wish to delete accounts on site slike myspace you must of created the accounts using an email address. I cant see you having hundreds of these so just go through the ones you do have and and attempt to login, if it rejects it due to password failure it should give you an option to reset the password by sending you a link to that email address. Job done, reset password, log in. Go to main settings and delete account.

I found out the e-mail address I had and I logged into Myspace and deleted the account. The only issue is that it still shows on the Google search page under my name if I search for my name. How long until it is gone from google searches? I clicked on the page and it says not found so that's good. But I don't want it there at all since the account is deleted, no?

Also, to everyone else, not everything is so black and white. To cut a long short stroy, it's about my sexual orientation and I could be in danger of either getting hurt really bad physically if they find out or thrown out on the streets and I am already sick due to a few illnesses.

[Tileyfa]

Have you tried hiring a hypnotist? Just have one come over to the house while disguised as a maintenance person, make sure she answers the door, he then hypnotizes her into not caring.

Or you could make a fake myspace page for her & fill it with even worse things.

[Gaebryel Quintyne]

Honestly, own your mistakes. Don't hide from them or lie your way out. If your parents find something via Google, you'd rather lie to them vs owning up to your mistakes and being an adult?

I have lied to them all my life because they don't agree with things that I like and they are very close-minded and are very religious.

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She clearly didnt. Youre fine. Shes already found it and shes still alive. Yes?

I don't think she clicked on the links. She saw the username which has "gay" in it (I was really really stupid and naive when I was younger, but weren't we all).

[Emageht Tsoluoy]

What have you done to your parents to make them distrust you so much as to do this deep of a search for your online presence?

he said they were hardcore muslims.
maybe he has pornlinks on some geoshitties cache from the 90's they will find out about.

that's grounds for excommunication, or a stabbing, or a beheading, or some other horrible act of inhumanity based on an archaic "honor code" system where minor infractions are grounds for lopping off a hand or foot.

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I could be in danger of either getting hurt really bad physically if they find out or thrown out on the streets and I am already sick due to a few illnesses.

well there you go.

[Gaebryel Quintyne]

yup and also tell her: "Im sorry but this is Canada, so I am sorry about your heart attack eh sorry".
she will learn trust me...

If it was that easy, you think I think I would done it already no? You can't really know what my situation is like until you have lived in my shoes. Which is fine and it's not your fault. I am just saying it's hard to know the whole picture with just a few details.

She already feels fishy and distrustful of me due to my past (I came out to them 3 times), the 2nd time, my Dad came me an ultimatum and I chose the wrong option (I said "I choose not to be gay"... Like it's a fucking choice to be that way, like really).

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How big are your parents into their religion? You looking at being disowned or set of fire?

Very very religious. That's why I am scared for my life. I could be unintentionally be blowing it out of proportions 'cause I can't really predict how they might react but I am still worried... Though I got stuff on lock-down... kind of. It's the YouTube account associated with my real name I need to delete. But google searches always show up which sucks.

[Deleted]

Hey guys.

I wouldn't ask this here but this is the only site I know.
I need someone to DM me and help me with this ASAP.
I sometimes fucking hate Google+.

I googled my real name and found things that I thought were long gone.
My mother of all people JUST googled my name and I am scared as fuck right now and said to delete them and said that do I go on "bad" things and bad sites (She is Muslim). Also, I have gone through 2 divorces in a span of 5+ years and the people that I got married to are in the extended family and could find out these things. Please help me.
I can't find out how to log in to the accounts either. One of them is a Youtube account with a fake name that's linked to a Google+ page that is my real name.
Also, I have a myspace account somehow, which I thought I deleted many years ago.
Please, for god's sake, help me.

Why the fuck does someone that has had two divorces give a shit about old internet history?

[Tnfstc]

Eh, I did some pretty stupid stuff in my teenage years that my mother found out about and all she said was "I'm disappointed" then we moved past it and are fine now, we even joke about it sometimes. My mother and I are both pretty religious, so I was terrified at the time too.

[Zelk]

So you were married to two relatives but you were gay?

[Gaebryel Quintyne]

God ain't gonna do shit but I can try to help you.

Start hunting down your accounts and setting them to private or deleting them. If they are linked to your google+ then you should be able to sign into them and delete/private them. As for myspace, I haven't used that shit in many moons so I can't help you there but I'm pretty sure you can recover your password and set things straight.

Also, two divorces? Seriously man, put your dick in it for a while before committing to it.

I am still a virgin by the way, if that is what you were implying in the last sentence? Maybe? I am not sure so I apologize if I misconstrued what you were saying.

Those marriages were arranged marriages, both of them. My parents convinced me for both of them, especially my mother since it was on her side of the family. Now, she has sworn off to ever marrying me off again 'cause she realized they were the biggest mistakes of her life. The thing is thought, parents are the only people in your life you trust with your life and you feel like they know what's best for me so I follow what they say, in hopes that it will be good for me.. Or in my case, fix me but it didn't. It took almost 30 years to figure it out but I am still not that convinced and I am still at a crossroads with on what lifestyle I will "choose" to live, even though I shouldn't use that word but it's the only word I can think of right now for this situation.

[Emageht Tsoluoy]

Why the fuck does someone that has had two divorces give a shit about old internet history?

because he isn't explicitly 'straight' and his parents/family are hardcore muslims.
he is worried one of them will use google to link his internet history usernames and avatars to his real name and accounts that have Freakyboi porn links in em, and disown/murder him.

[Deleted]

I am still a virgin by the way, if that is what you were implying in the last sentence? Maybe? I am not sure so I apologize if I misconstrued what you were saying.

Those marriages were arranged marriages, both of them. My parents convinced me for both of them, especially my mother since it was on her side of the family. Now, she has sworn off to ever marrying me off again 'cause she realized they were the biggest mistakes of her life. The thing is thought, parents are the only people in your life you trust with your life and you feel like they know what's best for me so I follow what they say, in hopes that it will be good for me.. Or in my case, fix me but it didn't. It took almost 30 years to figure it out but I am still not that convinced and I am still at a crossroads with on what lifestyle I will "choose" to live, even though I shouldn't use that word but it's the only word I can think of right now for this situation.

After two marriages? Seriously?

[Mifuyne]

I don't think we can help you considering your family is pretty hardcore religious.
You either move and live on your own or "enjoy" the religion.