2014 Gamergate: "If you want games without hyper sexualized female characters and representation, then learn to code!"
2023: "What's with all these massively successful games with ugly (realistic) women? How could this have happened?!"
7-10k is a good funeral. It's an average, for the average person, but since they're poor, it's above their means. Cremation and services averages 2-4k at a funeral home, or 1,500-3k at a crematory. Luxurious funerals are reserved for the people that are accustomed to luxury. A poor family would struggle to find things to make up the 7-10k difference above the average, and would view it as a complete waste of opportunity and resources.
The ditch is free.
Google sure is fun. Regardless, there is a hefty chunk of cash left over after funeral expenses for the person in charge of it to use as they please. If you don't like it, don't give money. No one has any right to bitch or complain about how someone else spends money that was freely given to them with no contracts involved.
To be blunt, the donaters can shove their stupidity up their own asses. There might be a little room left next to their heads.