I am 1 of seven Aunts/Uncles of 4 great children of my oldest Sister.
Her ex-husband and her have an agreement to switch custody every year. She has them right now till summer.
My concern is, my second oldest sister and I moved in when the children were with the ex husband to help with rent since he had a pricey home. What we saw was horrifying.
He NEVER watched his kids.. The two "older" ones ran out side with him not knowing at all and they are 10 and 8. The other two which at the time were 3 and 4 were suppose to be getting some much needed knowledge and parenting from him but here is where things are even bigger concern.
He cheated on her with an "online gf" who HE JUST MET 2 years after talking to her and asked her to move into the house this past week after not talking to her for 6 month in fear of her cheating on him. My sister plans on getting full custody and ONLY letting him see the children every other summer and christmas... The biggest concern is she has a dog and he does too.. I know his dog doesn't poop in the house and I already see a trend of her blaming his dog on pooping and peeing everywhere when I SEE her dog do it. What does that say of him trusting her on that over his kids doing things wrong when she or their little misbehaved dogs do?
My only nephew was going through counseling at school here which if you don't know, is a special counceling to see if the father/mother are abusing him. Their father yells, spanks, and doesn't buy school supplies for them when they are here and ignores them and locks them in their rooms.
My question is
What can I do this summer since I am moving out because of other issues with this place but also obtain evidence of how he treats the kids?
I am scared for the children and really fear their safety. This is all new to me because my 7 siblings had parents who got along and raised us together and don't understand broken homes. I know I have no right to jump in kick his or her ass for laying a hand on them without also causing problems with me but what can I do as the only person left in this town when they come back?
Please I ask for no trolls or /10 chara for this. I really need advice for this.