Or is it just me subconsciously trying to be a unique snowflake?
Okay, a bit more context fellas.
Over time, but particularly, the last year in a half or so, i've noticed a tendency in most people. People seem to have an innate hesitation to be alone. This could range from living alone; to working alone; to having less social circles etc.
I've lived alone a for certain periods of time, I prefer to work on/complete tasks alone, and I need that extra time to myself on occasion. Let me tell you, I love every minute of it. I honestly don't see any cons. I can think of nothing but pros.
I do what I want: This is kind of self explanatory. If i'm in the shower and forgot the towel across the house, I just walk out of my shower, prop up big jim and the twins, and grab my towel. Sometimes I even just walk around butt naked. It's just me; I do what I want.
You answer to yourself and only yourself: This kind of ties in to my last point. When you're alone, you have no one to blame for outcomes but yourself. This can be discomforting at first, especially when you fail at something. But even something as small as cleaning up gives you a certain kind of high when you know that you and only you got off your ass to do it.
You can learn a lot about yourself alone than you can with others: You learn about your good habits, bad habits, likes, and dislikes--you'd be surprised just how much of who you are is because of outside influences. By being alone, you get to learn about yourself, which takes me in my last pro.
By spending time alone, you make yourself better equipped to expand networks If we take the first three points as true, it follows that being alone can give you a sense of self agency, accountability, and knowledge about yourself as a person. Armed with these three things, you're better able to enforce boundaries and make good decisions socially.
But now I turn the table to anyone who's been reading this far in. Do you notice an innate hesitation in people to being alone? Where do you stand and why? Do you think i'm full of shit?
Let's hear it.