Sex while living at home?

[Danshot]

Is the dinner table ok?

Absolutely

[Independent voter]

This is not recommended if you are 6'7" and your wife is 5'11".

You need to buy a pickup

[anakin57]

its not awkward if they're asleep - now if they walk in then it may get a tad awkward

[Tennis]

So my mate told me he met this girl off tinder the other day and she still lives with her parents (which is fine) but that they were home when they had sex, now I don't live at home anymore so it's not a problem but he said it was so awkward because the parents were home. Has anyone who has had sex while your parents/the others parents were home? and was it awkward for you?

I never did it when my parents were home in high school so not sure but I can imagine it depending on how cool your parents are and how open you are with them about sexual stuff I guess.

How is it awkward?

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I have. Usually wait until parents sleep. Either that or drive off somewhere and bang in the car. If youre feeling really frisky, there are family bathrooms in the mall that you can both go into and lock.

Lmao that's getting real desperate.

[Enthusiastic Steward]

You need to buy a pickup

At that point we'd just put a sleeping bag down in the truck bed. Or an air mattress, we're getting old.

[BuckSparkles]

I would never ever think of doing it. I find it very unsavory and dis-respectable to the parents, and to anybody else. Part of the reason why I need to get my own place. I would never bring a girl to my place for consideration of my 3 roomates.

Keep that shit private and to yourselves.

[Muzjhath]

I would never ever think of doing it. I find it very unsavory and dis-respectable to the parents, and to anybody else. Part of the reason why I need to get my own place. I would never bring a girl to my place for consideration of my 3 roomates.

Keep that shit private and to yourselves.

If I ever have a child/teenager who's sexually active. I far rather have her sleep with people at home with me and whatever SO I'd have under the roof. If shit goes wrong I'm there. If shit doesn't, awesome. I can serve them breakfast and make them embarrassed as fuck in the morning.
Than being out who knows where doing who knows what.

[BuckSparkles]

If I ever have a child/teenager who's sexually active. I far rather have her sleep with people at home with me and whatever SO I'd have under the roof. If shit goes wrong I'm there. If shit doesn't, awesome. I can serve them breakfast and make them embarrassed as fuck in the morning.
Than being out who knows where doing who knows what.

That wouldn't happen under my roof. Once they are an adult, but a teen? Nope. Not happening.

[ItachiZaku]

Only a problem, if she is loud. In which case, be sure to "go upstairs" or whatever, and grab a drink from the fridge and make sure your first sip ends with a loud "Ahhhh" after you've put one on her. Let her folks know that THEY are now in YOUR house.

[A dot Ham]

So my mate told me he met this girl off tinder the other day and she still lives with her parents (which is fine) but that they were home when they had sex, now I don't live at home anymore so it's not a problem but he said it was so awkward because the parents were home. Has anyone who has had sex while your parents/the others parents were home? and was it awkward for you?

I never did it when my parents were home in high school so not sure but I can imagine it depending on how cool your parents are and how open you are with them about sexual stuff I guess.

I use to fuck girls at my parents house all the time. With them there or not.

Only a handful of girls did I actually bang at THEIR house with their parents home. Most of the time we just "went out for coffee" and then came back.

There was this one girl though... we were watching a movie spooning on the couch. Parents went to bed, and my girlfriend slips her pants down to mid thigh and pulls my dick out and starts to discreetly fuck me under the blankets. Not even a few minutes of that and her dad comes back out and sits on the same couch (at our feet) and asks, "Is it okay if I finish the movie with you guys?" I am literally balls deep in his daughter, and I could touch the man he is so close. What is worse, is that instead of the panic making me go limp... I am staying rock hard. She is trying to discreetly get me out of her (which isn't working) and her movement and basically kegels is getting me off. Thankfully I didn't nut, and he got up to go to the bathroom. I quickly got situated, and when he returned I told him I was pretty tired and I was going to head home early (long drive for me at the time). Dad is/was super cool... but I am quite certain he would have castrated me on the spot had he known. Now that we are all grown up I've always wanted to ask him if he knew... there is part of me that believes he knew exactly what was going on and was just fucking with me.

[Muzjhath]

That wouldn't happen under my roof. Once they are an adult, but a teen? Nope. Not happening.

The average age for losing virginity in Sweden (where I live) is 16-17. Unless numbers have changed. Some happen far earlier, some far later, it's an average.
Most people at that age still live with their parents. And when I have kids I far rather they feel secure and comfortable enough in their lives to have sex at home than feel forced to do it somewhere hidden.
Sex is natural and hormones make teenagers want to try it. Better they do it where it's safe.

Why strictly forbid it and make it less safe, seem's counter intuitive. Unless you think your kids wouldn't have sex just because of them being teenagers. Which seem's naive.

[BuckSparkles]

Why strictly forbid it and make it less safe, seem's counter intuitive. Unless you think your kids shouldn't have sex just because of them being teenagers. Which seem's naive.

Shouldn't. Fixed it for you. If they can't care for a child, they shouldn't be having sex.

And it's easy to prevent a teen from having sex. Just keep tabs on what they are doing, where they are doing, and who they are with.

Set curfews, rules. A parent should be in control, not the child who doesn't know shit about anything and makes stupid decisions.

[Dug]

The average age for losing virginity in Sweden (where I live) is 16-17. Unless numbers have changed. Some happen far earlier, some far later, it's an average.
Most people at that age still live with their parents. And when I have kids I far rather they feel secure and comfortable enough in their lives to have sex at home than feel forced to do it somewhere hidden.
Sex is natural and hormones make teenagers want to try it. Better they do it where it's safe.

Why strictly forbid it and make it less safe, seem's counter intuitive. Unless you think your kids wouldn't have sex just because of them being teenagers. Which seem's naive.

It's just a matter of respect, for me at least. I'm not going to forbid you from having sex in my home but you can wait until I'm out and about. If you must at least have the courtesy to not be loud and obnoxious. If you can't have the self control to not do it and not be annoying about it then you're not mature enough to have sex in the first place.

[Deleted]

Shouldn't. Fixed it for you. If they can't care for a child, they shouldn't be having sex.

And it's easy to prevent a teen from having sex. Just keep tabs on what they are doing, where they are doing, and who they are with.

Set curfews, rules. A parent should be in control, not the child who doesn't know shit about anything and makes stupid decisions.

You're entitled to your opinion. But i don't agree one bit with this. You're essentially taking away their freedom because you're scared they will do something. Teenagers have always been trying stuff, doing stupid shit because that's how we as humans learn.

[Muzjhath]

Shouldn't. Fixed it for you. If they can't care for a child, they shouldn't be having sex.

And it's easy to prevent a teen from having sex. Just keep tabs on what they are doing, where they are doing, and who they are with.

Set curfews, rules. A parent should be in control, not the child who doesn't know shit about anything and makes stupid decisions.

I'd rather teach my kids to practice safe sex with respect towards partners and environment. Than suppress human nature and natural urges. (That, if safe and correct environments is only good for the people involved).

Just because you allow a sexually ready (if not necessary mature) teenager to practice safe sex doesn't mean you don't have other rules. I'd expect them to not think it was a porn set and moan loudly enough to wake the neighbors. Etc. As Dugraka put it, if you can't do it somewhat politely don't do it at all.
Even if, as I stated, I'd rather be at home in case of shit that shouldn't happen happening.

[BuckSparkles]

You're entitled to your opinion. But i don't agree one bit with this. You're essentially taking away their freedom because you're scared they will do something. Teenagers have always been trying stuff, doing stupid shit because that's how we as humans learn.

If they live in your house, they obey your rules. They don't -have- freedom but what you allow them.

After all, you feed them, clothe them, house them, provide their entertainment and basically cover all of their costs.

The least they can do is obey you for your kindness and generosity.

[Rooskie1993]

Shouldn't. Fixed it for you. If they can't care for a child, they shouldn't be having sex.

And it's easy to prevent a teen from having sex. Just keep tabs on what they are doing, where they are doing, and who they are with.

Set curfews, rules. A parent should be in control, not the child who doesn't know shit about anything and makes stupid decisions.

Yeah I don't see that happening at all, so you tell me you're going to follow them 24/7 and put a tracking device on them to make sure they don't have sex? That's just stupid. Teenagers will break rules and curfews unless you're some christian or like really REALLY strict and don't let them do fucking anything from the minute they were born. (Also not saying christians are prudes or anything but you probably get what I mean)

[Deleted]

If they live in your house, they obey your rules. They don't -have- freedom but what you allow them.

After all, you feed them, clothe them, house them, provide their entertainment and basically cover all of their costs.

The least they can do is obey you for your kindness and generosity.

Geezh.. I don't know, clash of cultures? I'm sure i wouldnt see my kids as randoms i feed. I'd want to give them the chance to be human, make mistakes but at the same time give them shit for it. But restricting teenagers have never worked, they always find a way, i know i did.

[Goonygoon]

Are you kidding.. the best thing in the world is having some hot girl biting into your shoulder trying not to make noise while your parents are on the other side of a paper thin wall. Hell, the chance of getting 'caught' is half the fun!

[Axphism]

Shouldn't. Fixed it for you. If they can't care for a child, they shouldn't be having sex.

And it's easy to prevent a teen from having sex. Just keep tabs on what they are doing, where they are doing, and who they are with.

Set curfews, rules. A parent should be in control, not the child who doesn't know shit about anything and makes stupid decisions.

It must be complete bliss living in your imaginary world. LMAO