May said that the notion of men losing in divorce that some posters espouse (which stems from them more likely to be the breadwinner) is inconsistent with arguing again ay gap and jotaux responded that he confused pay gap with career choices. How exactly wouldn't the interpretation of career choices as choosing worse jobs be valid here?
Yes, that is totally what I was doing. Couldn't be response to you focusing on just the woman's sacrifices and portraying her as some kind of exploited victim in case of a divorce. Why do I even bother with you and you disingenuous bullshit. And in case your dishonesty scrambled your brain and made you forgot your own post from 15 minutes earlier, it was you who brought gender into the equation. I used gendered examples only because I followed the framework of your post. I have been against alimony in general in the thread prior to your grand entrance, so do bother to actually read threads before you decide to pollute them. Which means no, I haven't been pushing a "woe is me, poor, poor man" narrative and as such you can shove it. Eventually, if you really, really can't control your sick need to project nonsense, project it on your father instead.
Their responsibilities end with divorce. That's kinda the point of it. Just like the benefits do.
Because ultimately the guy can't force her to do so.