'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
You can speak to your roommate, but other than that it really isn't your place to interfere.
(Unless it is a crime in your country and you are obligated to tell the police or face repercussions. Still, talk to your roommate first.)
One thing is for sure, no one wil thank you if you do interfere and you will probably make the situation worse anyway.
Did you miss where 1) I said she should consider a new roommate and 2) where I said she can say no overnight guests...but then she'd also have to live with those rules?
I mean, there are options to take, but it's not likely to be a comfortable (or frankly successful) conversation. These are adults here -- it's REALLY hard to say "hey, you aren't allowed to bring guys over to the house we both pay for." Some people are ok with that, but I suspect the OP's roommate will not be thrilled with a change in rules and want to know why -- which gets into really awkward territory.
"Identifies as poly." Fucking hell, I've read it all now.
I don't think it would, either...I was referring more to the fact that the guy and his wife don't seem to actually be poly, if he is sneaking around behind the wife's back and she's not OK with him seeing other people (although if they actually were poly, I guess she could still feasibly have an issue with the sneaking around behind her back).
In regards to my roommate, she definitely buys into the notion of "slut-shaming" so she would likely interpret any sort of statements by me regarding her behavior as such.
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
roommate sounds like a nut. I'd not move in with her again, and get a better roommate.
Also, point and laugh when it inevitably blows up in her face. Theres not much you can do for people who insist on being stubborn.
Debatable. But actively seeking out someone who's married/involved with someone else is pretty shitty and puts the blame primarily on you. However, responding to the advances of someone who happens to be married or involved with someone else (regardless of when you find out) puts the blame primarily on them. You've no obligation to pass up what's freely offered because of someone else's "feels".
Take the time to live and get into some hot 3 ways imo!
Originally Posted by Tradewind
Well yeah, did you see the daughter? 0/10, would not bang.
Getting cheated on is one of the most gut-wrenching experiences you can have. Personally, if I was aware that the wife of the man knows and does not approve of this relationship I would immediately break off any sort of friendship with the person "helping" the man cheat. She doesn't care about the wife's feelings, only about her own, that's not someone I could ever be friends with, let alone roommates.
Personal opinion though, just thought you might appreciate the input. x:
Money talks, bullshit walks..
Sure, I know that. There are however, people that claim that they don't have any choice about the matter. Here's a Slate article that argues as much.
Not really anyone's business but the dude, his wife, and the roommate.
BTW, what the hell is 'poly'? Wouldn't that just be bisexual?