Actually it is chaos. South Europe and France cant wait for the UK to leave. They want to impose their ideas and the UK always blocked them.
Merkel is probably your best friend in Europe. Most of the remainung EU actually is happy when UK leaves. I bet most of them are willing to deny the UK access to the single market.
Germany puts high value on free trade. South Europe and France want more power to the EU, more control over the market, less free trade and more gov spending including common depts.
Some of you have no idea that germany is your closest ally in Europe by far. But overall they have small influence on the EU.