Genuinely curious
Genuinely curious
Friendzoning isn't something people do to other people; everyone who ever landed in the friendzone put themselves there.
Someone who keeps putting energy into a relationship they know isn't going where they want it to go is making a choice.
Nobody "made you" sad. Someone gave you less than you wanted, and you felt sad about it. Then you kept going back for more sadness on the faint hope that attraction would somehow spontaneously occur. Take responsibility for your own feelings.
no. if they aren't ok with just being friends, chances are they aren't a good person in the first place.
Younger me never felt an ounce of guilt, but after I'd say my 23rd birthday I started to feel a bit of guilt for it. But it was only after a few instances that I really just started empathizing with more people.
As a teen and young adult I did not care at all, now I feel its a shitty thing to do and make sure to catch it when its happening and send prospective men on their way.
On MMO-C we learn that Anti-Fascism is locking arms with corporations, the State Department and agreeing with the CIA, But opposing the CIA and corporate America, and thinking Jews have a right to buy land and can expect tenants to pay rent THAT is ultra-Fash Nazism. Bellingcat is an MI6/CIA cut out. Clyburn Truther.
I did once by accident and I regret it still ... the one hot women that actually wanted me and I totally didn't get it at the time...
Can't make everyone happy.
You're getting exactly what you deserve.
On MMO-C we learn that Anti-Fascism is locking arms with corporations, the State Department and agreeing with the CIA, But opposing the CIA and corporate America, and thinking Jews have a right to buy land and can expect tenants to pay rent THAT is ultra-Fash Nazism. Bellingcat is an MI6/CIA cut out. Clyburn Truther.
no not at all, if i knew that somebody thought of me as "friendzoning" them i would end the friendship altogether as i don't consider people who are merely trying to get something out of me to be my "friend."
"Just because you read it on the internet, doesn't mean the person actually said it." - Thomas Jefferson
In theory I agree, but generally people often manipulate the love sick individual with false hope. If you firmly tell them its never going to happen and they remain obsessed then there is nothing you can really do.
But, as in many cases, if they love you and you continue to dangle a possibility of something happening, then absolutely its a terrible thing YOU are doing. Having been the person who definitely took advantage of such poor saps, I now kinda regret what younger me did because I was doing just that, manipulating their emotions to get what I wanted.
On MMO-C we learn that Anti-Fascism is locking arms with corporations, the State Department and agreeing with the CIA, But opposing the CIA and corporate America, and thinking Jews have a right to buy land and can expect tenants to pay rent THAT is ultra-Fash Nazism. Bellingcat is an MI6/CIA cut out. Clyburn Truther.