Didn't read the whole thread, just responding to OP directly.
It does feel small.
Perception is unique thing of course, everyone has their own, but it IS. SMALL.
Any talk about how you can start in any zone of Broken Isles and be happy is kinda irrelevant, because continent is so small that you'll visit all zones anyway.
I.e. if you have 1+ alts, they'll all have the same journey. In different order.
My honest experience anyway.