Always go back.
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Are you giving up the booty or was she?
You cared enough to post.
Go and they don't show up - Dance with other girls
Go and they do - Dance with them
Win/win
Not going will only have you at home, alone. I think the answer is pretty clear.
Don't trust them, they are after your kidneys!
Nah just stay home and play wow.
So you rag on military members and veterans because they're making "Poor life choices," and you can't make a simple decision without asking the internet?
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you cant be stupid enough to need advice on this, it probably never happened
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
You make plans to go back then ask if you should go back. This sort of social awkwardness confuses me.
"I'm not stuck in the trench, I'm maintaining my rating."
Don't go back.
Trust me on this one...Tell them you are sorry you couldn't make it and that something came up. Then make plans for another day on your terms.
The idea is to make them see you as a person with shit going on that doesn't involve them.They want to be a part of your life and you are not at their beck and call.
Worst case scenario, if you must go back show up very late. Tell them that you had shit to handle, or was doing something else that was awesome, and you decided to swing by to check them out. Then you tell them you are not in a clubbing mood and ...well that is going to advance stuff. Bottom line, don't come off as needy and a doormat if you like these women.
But if you actually want to go back anyway, then go. The key factor is that it is your choice that is separate from the females.
'Twas a cutlass swipe or an ounce of lead
Or a yawing hole in a battered head
And the scuppers clogged with rotting red
And there they lay I damn me eyes
All lookouts clapped on Paradise
All souls bound just contrarywise, yo ho ho and a bottle of rum!
Read as Guinnesses, agreed wholeheartedly (still agree with the actual quote though).
OT: If you didn't get their number and haven't talked to them since, then it was probably drunk talk and I personally wouldn't expect them to even remember, let alone follow through. I would go back regardless though because I like returning to places where I have a good time. It sounds like you had a good time so go back.
Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got a hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.
-- George Bernard Shaw
They weren't even there, had to grind on other booty.
I hear ya, i really do, but there is a solid chance that the girls OP is talking about is that type of girl. Not trying to go all MRA, but if you talk to 10 random women, chances are 6/10 of them is like that in this day and age.The one's who aren't usually are in a relationship or not out grinding on random dudes.
Not surprised. Chances of them actually heading back were slim to none unless they were regulars there. Hence why i said do not go unless you wanted to go anyway regardless of them.
Do not make plans around women you meet randomly at a club or bar or whatever. Never do that. Not only does it turn them off (for whatever reason) but they don't really deserve it. They aren't your friends, you don't have any kind of relationship and they probably won't remember you if they saw you again. So why should your time be of such low value that you are willing to make plans around such folks?
Hope you had fun though.
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