You are doing something really wrong, resto is the best healing spec atm for raids and dungeons. Nobody will tell you different, we are just too fucking OP atm FeelsGoodMan
No need to get defensive, here. He's not calling YOU bad, after all, and I absolutely disagree the implied assumption that either the healer or the tank s bad in this exchange. That doesn't necessarily need to be the case.
For instance, there could be some parts of the fight where the DPS are causing themselves too much harm, thus taking attention away from the healer trying to keep the tank up.
There's also been a fair number of Resto druids I've played with that aren't very good at planning ahead. They then get caught trying to play catchup, which isn't a good place to be. Its actually what took me the hardest to wrap my head around after being a reactive healer for so long. Or it could be related to this:
Just like Outlaw rogue is one of the best dps spec atm, which means everybody and their mother is rolling one and not doing a very good job at playing it yet.
Omg this made me laugh hahaha... Been healing since the days of Healing touch queue/cancel spam and while I've healed on every class, and really enjoyed a few (Shaman), I always love druids the best.
Healing is the most stressful/challenging/rewarding role imo and more so than with any other healing class if you are on your game and know what you should be doing ahead of time as a druid nobody dies...period