I don't really care if their life story is real or not. Won't change the fact that i'm trying to help them help themselves.
If me being honest and trying to motivate them to take some time to be healthier is having a negative effect... I can't imagine what will have a positive effect on those people. Especially since i freely admit that i'm at a loss still (discipline wise) when it comes to the subject at hand.
It's their health so... their loss.