Unless, of course, the mother takes her back-up option: Adoption.
I snipped the majority of your post mostly for brevity, but also for the rhetorical tangent it seemed to go on. Yeah, there certainly are cases of men/boys trying to get out of responsibility for what was consensual, unprotected sex. But there are also cases in which false premise is a perfectly valid argument. For example, if the woman lies about the contraception and/or pokes a hole in the condom, the conditions of consent are no longer valid and the man should not be held accountable for the woman's actions. Similarly, in many states if you assume your SO's child is yours and sign the birth certificate under that assumption and find out a few years later that the child is not yours, you are still financially responsible even if you and the SO split up. The conditions of consent to support the child was based on the assumption that the child is yours and that not being the case invalidates that consent. In another light, however, this makes the entire "consent form" nonsense seem slightly more tangible if it includes a "pregnancy clause."
"In order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must be intolerant of intolerance." Paradox of tolerance
Or just, parental responsibility as the law sees it.
He is still a parent regardless of want. A child requires support. The child can't go with out food, shelter, medicine, etc-- just because one parent didn't want the child.
Parents can take these issues to court by the way.
In which the adoptive guardians now support the child typically.
It all comes down to a human (the child) still needing to be supported. Children do not get these things auto-magically.
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I had to pay for an abortion once...apparently I got my then girlfriend pregnant. I don't even remember having sex with her or anytime before that. shit happens I guess.
Completely dead on. I don't know what the answer is. To not realize that there is a double standard and lack of equality on the handling of these situations is a sign of lack of common sense. Like i said, I'm not sure how to handle it, what the best way would be. That there is a problem though is 100% clear.
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The difference is if/when the woman becomes pregnant she has a choice and he doesn't. Is that difficult for people to understand? wts brain cells
Because we don't want an epidemic of fatherless children relying on tax payer support. What the fuck do you mean "No means no"? The minute you dipped without a condom you said "Yes, please.". That's on you, take responsibility for it and if you're not grown enough to do that at least you can pay for the people who are left cleaning up your 'mess'. Abortion is protection as well, unfortunately that's only available to women. Life isn't fair, you knew that, so why did you gamble?
That argument goes both ways then. Isn't the woman trying to avoid consequences by doing an abortion? Why is it all right for one side to have the only say in something that involves both parties? I am not arguing that a man should have control over a woman's body, but if a guy does not want to be a parent while the girl does, then it seems fair if the guy can opt out completely if he so desires.
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Western Privledge and the laughable divorce rate and child support bias towards women is why I plan to never get married or have children.
I'm selfish I want to do what I want to do when I want to do it and have my financial gains be all my control. suddenly between work what the ball an chain wants to do and what the child wants to do especially when they reach teenage years.
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You can't force her to have an abortion, but maybe a man should be able to file for a "legal abortion" during the first few months of pregnancy. This "legal abortion" would cut any lawful responsibilities he might have for the child. This would give men the same rights as women when it comes to deciding whether they want to become a parent or not.
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But there is only one parent.
Only one party is actually making the decisions.
And even if you go for "well we have this inequality and we are not going to do anything about it because (vagina)" -
There is still things that can and should be done - Like forcing the mother on pain of incarceration (Kidnapping) to name and inform the father.
Because today in all the whole wide world a woman can have the kid, refuse to name the father and put the kid up for adoption with no paternal approval.
In short, the dad is apparently a father as far as money goes, but fuck the rest.
Someone needing support does not mean there is an obligation to support.He is still a parent regardless of want. A child requires support.
The mother can provide.The child can't go with out food, shelter, medicine, etc-- just because one parent didn't want the child.
and if you say 'she cant' well I have a novel idea, put her in jail for failing to provide, make her work two jobs and garnish her salary - Those are all things we do to men.
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No generally not.
More importantly, the 'father' is still liable for child support for a child he by definition did not choose to create - Think about that even the most hardcore anti abortionist sticks in rape exemptions, but those don't exist fr raped men.
But you know we live in a patriarchy that hates women.