If it was just as simple as planning, everyone would be a billionaire. People are born in different places and circumstances, they get into different life-changing events, etc. Demanding that everyone who can work works without any support is idiotic: people have different abilities to work. A disabled veteran is much less of a potential worker than a young strong guy with Stanford diploma (which, again, not everyone can afford).
You understand the situation of a gay guy from Iran, but you don't understand the situation of an old guy who was born in a bad neighborhood in a bad and poor family, was stuck his entire life on low-paid jobs barely ensuring his survival - and in the end was dismissed by every member of his family, because he stopped generating income? Both are victims of the circumstances. And, to an extent, every single person is a victim of circumstances. Some rise above the circumstances, like Nick Vujicic; some, in contrary, drown below them, like people winning dozens millions dollars in a lottery and going bankrupt soon thereafter... But in the end, there is no person on this planet whose life is a pure product of their choices.
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Most don't seem to have read them.
Also, there is no hypocrisy in chastising people for having a stupid position. It is one matter when someone says, "I hate Hillary because I disagree with her X, Y and Z policies". It is another matter when they say, "Uuuugh, liar! Uuuugh, e-mails! Uuuugh, feminism! Uuuugh, her hubby is a sexual violator! Go, Trump, go!!!" Or, for support: "I support Trump for his policies X, Y and Z", versus, "He will make SJWs cry! He is against the establishment! Shut up, you haters, he's the best!!!"