Wait, what are you saying here? That in some occurrences people feeling it don't actually feel it? That they're making it up? Are you trying to tell people what they should feel and to force your subjective interpretation of what's offensive or exclusive onto others? I guess you are a Texan after all!
Pretty sure most posters do that. Primary exceptions being Endus or people like Orlong (the latter probably being too busy to adjust their behavioral programming to be bothered by such trifles).