I've played the 2 week free trial and so far have enjoyed it. I've played quite a few of the MMOs (WoW, Rift, GW2, SWtOR, ESO, Wildstar), but for various reasons none of them are really getting me hooked. They all have their pluses and minuses, so I'm not looking for input on those (unless somebody else who has played them all wants to chime in as well). I primarily play PvE, but dable in PvP if I've got a group of people to make it fun. I'd be coming to FF by myself, and am looking to make some new friends in the game. I've browsed this sub-forum, the SE forums, the Reddit sub page, and a few other forums. So far I'm thinking this may be a nice home that I can enjoy; but before I make the dive I've got a few final questions I can't find answers to.
1. Since I did the free trial, I assume I can still do the recruit a friend thing? Obviously I've seen that I want to apply the code prior to purchasing the game/game time; but does it matter who's code I use? Is there a reason to find a code from somebody on the server I want to play on?
2. I've found a few pages that hint at server populations, and I've narrowed down the server choice to Balmung and Gilgamesh. Anybody wanna give me reasons not to play on one of those realms? They seem to be the larger populations from everything I've seen and I prefer a larger population where I can then find a nice medium sized FC to join.
3. I'm sold on my primary job being a healer (I usually tank or heal, but am not comfortable tanking a new MMO right now). I've got a good feel for the different healers right now, but if I were to say start a WHM, and then find after playing with it some that I don't like it as much how easy is it to switch to a different healer job (say AST or SCH)?
4. Any reason at this time to buy ARR and HW? My goal would probably be to at least get to max level on my primary job then a few others depending on time prior to the new expansion, but if I read it right with the expansion coming out if I just buy ARR now I can just wait and buy the expansion and get HW at the same time? I guess the information on this isn't very clear (or I'm just bad at reading comprehension).
5. Any other pointers? Advice?
Thank you all for your input. I'm sure you've seen all these questions tons of times, but figured I'd give an ask just to make sure I'm getting the information I'm looking for.