Originally Posted by
Docturphil
It's not absolutely racist. It's potentially racist depending on context. If I were married to a black woman I think I could comfortably say, "Hey sexy chocolate lady come here and get some" and still love her as a wife. It's merely a metaphor for a physical feature. That's it. Any other implications can only be derived from the context.
Let's try using chocolate in a few different contexts and consider the implications.
Given black man Bob and white man Joe
Context #1:
Bob: Hey Joe. What sort of things could you compare to my skin tone?
Joe: Well, Joe, lots of things. First thing that comes to mind is chocolate.
Not racist
Context #2:
Joe: Hey Bob my chocolate friend!
Bob: Hey Joe... Listen would you mind not calling me chocolate?
Joe: Oh, sorry Bob. I didn't mean any offense.
Bob: I know, Joe. I just don't really like that.
Joe: OK, Bob. I won't call you that again.
Not really racist. Maybe a bit ignorant at worst, but not racist.
Context #3:
Joe: Hey Bob. You're a chocolate piece of shit. What's it like being an inferior chocolate person?
Bob: Excuse me! I can't believe you just said that!
Now that's racist
If calling a black person "chocolate" sets off an emotional reaction for you, well sorry. But that by itself is not actually racist. Don't be blinded by your emotional delusions.