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Yeah really bad situation for a 13y BOY
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How about that MMO shitty therapists?
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Also about all the dumbos writing "HURR DURR BUT HE SAW HER AS A MOTHERLY FIGURE DURR HURR"
Fucking learn to read.At first the teen saw Albini as a “mother figure” when she befriended him in July 2015.
But soon they professed their love for each other and swapped sexually explicit messages.
He didn't saw really her as a motherly figure if later THEY professed EACH OTHER their LOVE.
His penis was tickling enough to "mhh better tell my parents about this situation? mhh no" so he is not really a victim.
But she ofc desever jail
Last edited by mmocbfa8dc246d; 2017-05-05 at 09:40 AM.
Ahahaha good on him bad on her.
Except he is talking about the boy persoective. We aren't in an abusive relation here, at all. That boy wasnt raped, wasnt kept captive and wasn't forced to sexual activites.
Circumstences are important in those cases. He was just fine with the situation. Should she be charged ? Maybe, yes. But facing jail time in this specific situation is stupid.
The double standard in this case is perfectly reasonable, since a girl having sex at that age faces more serious risks than a boy. She can get physically hurt. If she becomes pregnant, she has to deal with that herself, which would be an absolute horror at that age. And even on a psychological level she would be a lot more affected, since in our culture we still have remnants of the idea that sex "devalues" women.
Boys on the other hand can just chalk it up as a growing up experience. That's not saying that there aren't serious risks, especially when the grown woman uses their sexual relationship to emotionally manipulate him, and I probably wouldn't want this woman to remain a teacher, but I can easily see cases where a 13 years old boy would see this as a positive and end up unaffected. It all depends on what kind of relationship they had. It might be worse for him if he ends up blaming himself for destroying her life.
They met when he was 15. When they started having sex is a different matter (some tabloids seem to suggest he was 16, but there doesn't seem to be any proof to back it up). The >3 year age difference is significant. Also bear in mind that in France the legal age of consent is 15.
I would agree that the magnitude of the harm tends to be greater for a girl than for a boy. But that does not make it ok to take those liberties with a boy, nor does it mean it should be treated as a lesser offence.
True. That could really fuck him up big time. Which is part of why what the teacher did was so wrong. She would be entirely responsible for this sort of outcome.
That poor boy lived the dream. Unlucky teacher though.
" The guilt of an unnecessary war is terrible." --- President John Adams
" America goes not abroad, in search of monsters to destroy." --- President John Quincy Adams
" Our Federal Union! It must be preserved!" --- President Andrew Jackson
Interestingly the reaction is very mild, as always, compared to if a 41 year old male teacher had been doing this to a 13 year old girl.
I think it's a sort of case that should be judged based on the circumstances. She isn't necessarily a predator, this relationship could have been a one time thing, and the boy could have played his part too in making it happen. And while he's still a kid, he's old enough that it might be healthier for him if the whole thing isn't overly dramatized.
I suppose that's a matter of perspective, though. 13 is much closer to the dotted line in the EU, where the age of consent is mostly 14-15 than in the US where it is 16-18 (on both continents it used to be 12 or below until the early-mid 1900's). Hell, in Spain it used to be 13 until 2 years ago.
A grown woman having sex with a 13 years old boy can potentially protect herself, and doesn't have to inform him if she's going to have an abortion (or a child for that matter). I didn't say everything would be ok if she has a child with him and involves him, I said it's worse for girls because pregnancy involves them implicitly.
Also, I'll refer you to what I wrote above. 13 is pretty young, but there are still countries where it is legal, or was legal until very recently. Do I think it's ok? No. It's horribly irresponsible, but then again so would be someone in their early 30s having sex with a 17 years old. Is it sick and worthy of jail? Kind of debatable.
Last edited by Coconut; 2017-05-05 at 11:06 AM.
Please do explain the bolded and underlined part. A happy person who enjoys their life (I am and I do) is hardly damaged.
Now, if by "damaged" you mean " doesn't agree with a rom-com's definition of a relationship", I plead guilty.
My man card will follow me to my grave; bet on it.
" The guilt of an unnecessary war is terrible." --- President John Adams
" America goes not abroad, in search of monsters to destroy." --- President John Quincy Adams
" Our Federal Union! It must be preserved!" --- President Andrew Jackson