Well, I was supposed to be dead at least seven years ago, so there's a decent start. Not only am I not dead yet, but the chronic pain has remained manageable and the OSA hasn't gotten particularly worse.
I'm still very enthusiastic about the upcoming wedding, and Fiancee 2.1 continues to pamper me. Since her business is health and beauty she has training in traditional Chinese medicine and a bit of Western medicine, so she has also been working on things like the OSA and chronic pain with some success.
I enjoy my work, and I'm starting to get to cut back my course load to the point that I can pick up more corporate training and consulting. It has been a pleasure to teach over the years, and I'm happy that students from seventeen years ago still keep up with me, but consulting and corporate training pay significantly more and I need to be a bit more serious about that now that I'm starting a family.
The quasi-adoptive 'daughters' (a holdover from the old days, a tradition that once would have been considered adoption but does not meet modern adoption standards) have all gone on to do well in their own lives. I'm proud of them and they always give me a reason to smile.
I enjoy where I am. It has been an interesting run, watching the changes here. Most of my time has been in the Northeast (Dongbei), so getting married to a Southern Chinese woman is going to be interesting. Particularly during Spring Festival, the Chinese tend to go back to wherever they consider the family's hometown. That means I'll start spending time away from the big city environment that I've grown used to, and going to a scenic region of Hunan (Dongting Lake/Dongtinghu).
Instead of this:
A dash of this:
Life could be worse, I'll count these as being happy.