And a lot of Men just want the divorce and such over with so many of them just submit to whatever their former spouse wants. For all the banging on about how unfair the court systems treat men you would think they'd fight for what they're owed or in child custody battles for their children.
I never had to pay my ex-wife a dime of alimony nor did I have to split my assets with her after the divorce. Hell the judge looked at my ex-wife and pretty much told her that she's going to have to use this experience to learn how to take care of herself. Men really need to stop rolling over and trading alimony payments for a quick a release from divorce proceedings....you'll lose every time.