Sex on the First Date?

[Doctor Amadeus]

Sex on the First Date is it acceptable?




Also is Fetishism racist or wrong?


Meaning if you only date someone because their race or how they look big breast, color of eyes etc.

[Freighter]

It's acceptable...? I'd rather wait a bit if it's someone I'm dating though to minimize the risk of them being someone who just claims to want to date and then disappears after you've had sex with them.

Yes, fetishizing someone because of their race is pretty racist as it's accompanied by various stereotypes.

[meheez]

Literally got rejected for not fucking on the first date. But the lady had issues.

Tbh its acceptable under perfect circumstance? But where in the world would you find such perfection.

Depends on what you are looking for.

[Doctor Amadeus]

It's acceptable...? I'd rather wait a bit if it's someone I'm dating though to minimize the risk of them being someone who just claims to want to date and then disappears after you've had sex with them.

Yes, fetishizing someone because of their race is pretty racist as it's accompanied by various stereotypes.

Interesting, yep, I think there are many pros and cons to anything someone chooses, however I think it is interesting to investigate why.

As in terms of Fetishism, yeah, I think it stretches beyond just what someone likes, I am sure some people are serial daters and such, but for the most part, I think unless it's that stringing someone along or getting involved with someone because of the way they look alone is a bit racist.

Almost like dating someone because they have big boobs, you can't marry their boobs and people change over time.

[FuxieDK]

The 60s called and want their discussion back...

Sex on first date, has been both the norm AND widely accepted, in all of the civilized world, for the last 50 or so years..

Also, why would you go on second date, if there was no sex on first date???

[Doctor Amadeus]

Literally got rejected for not fucking on the first date. But the lady had issues.

Tbh its acceptable under perfect circumstance? But where in the world would you find such perfection.

Depends on what you are looking for.

Kudos to you for sticking to your guns whatever they were, but WOW kind of surprising.

Getting to know someone is very much apart of their sexuality with some people, I agree.

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The 60s called and want their discussion back...

Sex on first date, has been both the norm AND widely accepted, in all of the civilized world, for the last 50 or so years..

Well I think there used to be a lot of stereotypes and what not about it back then, but I am not prefacing this question off a moral base. I am just asking about over all preference not to whether or not someone is or isn't this or that label.

Nice T Shirt by the way

[FuxieDK]

Nice T Shirt by the way

Hehe.. Very relevant for this specific topic

[Doctor Amadeus]

Indeed that kid is a straight shooter with upper management material written all over him.

[Lochton]

The 60s called and want their discussion back...

Sex on first date, has been both the norm AND widely accepted, in all of the civilized world, for the last 50 or so years..

Also, why would you go on second date, if there was no sex on first date???

Wait, the norm? I wouldn't say that.

Sex on the first date is acceptable at any rate, all down to the people on the date of course.

[Santti]

If both are feeling for it, why not?

[Freighter]

Also, why would you go on second date, if there was no sex on first date???

Why would you date if sex is what you care about?

[Thelxi]

Of course. It's a lot of potentially crucial info you are passing on.

[Deleted]

Of course it is. We are animals. We love sex.

[meheez]

Also, sex means different things for men and women.

And women often mistake sexual needs of men with feelings and get used and dropped, unless they wanted that in the first place.

How the fuck are you gonna know if the guy isnt some sleazy douche on the first date?

Are we human or are we autistic animals? I mean, i have both physical and emotional standards for sex to be enjoyable, otherwise im not even liking the person. And why would you fuck someone you dont like?

But some people are just asocial like that i guess. Dont mind that personally if thats what you want.

[Deleted]

Why would you date if sex is what you care about?

Because that's how you get sex. It's not that common that you can just walk up to someone and immediately start having sex. Especially in countries where girls are already freaked out when you talk to them Usually you have to at least have a drink together.

[Eazy]

Meaning if you only date someone because their race or how they look big breast, color of eyes etc.[/B]

No, it's preference.

OT: It's not wrong if both want to.

[Elim Garak]

If there's love at first sight there must be sex at first date.

[Donald Hellscream]

If both are sure they really want to have sex with each other than I don't see why not.

[Corroc]

Because that's how you get sex. It's not that common that you can just walk up to someone and immediately start having sex. Especially in countries where girls are already freaked out when you talk to them Usually you have to at least have a drink together.

He was asking the dude who said "why go on second date if you didn't have sex on first". I mean if you have sex on the first date then its pretty ok to just have sex again without the whole dating part. If both want that ofc.

[Freighter]

Because that's how you get sex. It's not that common that you can just walk up to someone and immediately start having sex. Especially in countries where girls are already freaked out when you talk to them Usually you have to at least have a drink together.

You don't have to to get sex. Assholes leading you on just to get to have sex is why I'm waiting with sex when dating. Go find someone at a bar/club or something instead if what you care about is sex, make some arrangement with someone to have casual sex. Don't lead someone on just to get to have sex.