Although they are probably the two night elven groups that will get along very well (as i don't really see much hope for kaldorei and shal'dorei getting on fabulously .. unless the kaldorei have updated their views with all the new info Legion and Suramar brings - which will be more than I expect of blizzard to factor in - but that's a different topic in itself (blizzard didn't even update the kaldorei developments with the quel'dorei from Cataclysm - i'm not holding out hope)
It does the beg the question
- who is better at magic?
- who'd come out on top in a battle? and
- who'd you prefer?
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They're pretty much the same people group, same culture, same mindset. They are the Kaldorei empire culture. Difference is:
Highborne city of Eldre'thalas fell to ruin by Immol'thar.
Nightborne city of Suramar was maintained and thrived.
Both continued studying magic intensively for 10k years
Highborne chose to stay in their city, nightborne felt they had no choice.
Both have shown to have individuals of upstanding moral character [Thalyssra/Occuleth, Mordant Evenshade/Estulan]
Both have intact knowledge of all the wonders from the night elven empire lost to the night elves and high elves.
Although the nightborne look shinier because we see Suramar civilization unspoiled from the glory days of the Kaldorei empire, as those night elves, now nightborne have kept it going, unlike Dire Maul that eventually fell. Thats it not proof that the highborne have less magical knowledge or capability than the nightborne. Remember these groups are not like the remaining Hyjal Kaldorei who abandoned any use of the arcane for 10k years until cata events, nor the high/blood elves who are highborne descendants that went 3k years without any magic and after exile had nothing from their former empire and had to rebuild their knowledge base, infrastructure and everything from scratch when they found the land they named Quel'thalas.