Originally Posted by
Th3D0n
I started working at this school as tech support about 3 years ago where I met this wonderful Headmaster, let's call her Kriss ( she was second in command at first, she became headmaster the following year) and it was love at first sight for me but i didn't pursue her. There is a 4 year gap between us which isn't a problem at all, i'm 29 and she is 33.
Here is where things become complicated, Kriss has a bf, they've been together for about 8 years, they also live together but they are still not married. She is a very lovely, loving, kind person and she is this way with everyone around her. Kriss and I have a good friendly relationship we talk and joke all the time.
I was thinking about telling her how i feel, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do. On one hand this would kinda give me closure so i can move on, but on the other hand Kriss is my boss and I still have to work with her after the fact and I am a little bit afraid how this will affect our relationship.
What do you guys think? Is it ok, fair to pursue a girl who is in a relationship for this long?