Escorts - Yay or Nay?

[Freighter]

Yeah and it was never an issue

I don't believe that for a second.

[anaxie]

I don't believe that for a second.

Thats because youre a gold digger

[Deleted]

I don't believe that for a second.

I don't eat out at overpriced places or expect my partner to fit the bill

[Nitro Fun]

Okay gold digger

TIL: Not dating poor men means you're a gold digger. Conversely the men trying to date above their income are not gold diggers somehow smh.

[Kathandira]

I cant do relationships. Been there i hate people and hate doing things to appease others sucking away any leisure time

That is a shame. You should see a therapist about that.

[Freighter]

I don't eat out at overpriced places or expect my partner to fit the bill

I don't eat out at overpriced places either. Did you not read my post? I said travel too. I regularly go to Kota Kinabalu in Malaysia, if someone I'm dating would whine about not being able to afford to go with me then they're not for me. It points to fundamental differences that can't be overcome.

[Not A Cat]

Definitely nothing wrong with it imo. I still don't get why prostitution is illegal in the US. If it were legal at least federal or state governments could regulate it to keep it as safe and clean as possible. People are going to do it anyway, might as well tax it and make some money.

Personally, I couldn't hire an escort or prostitute. I would just get depressed after. I need that emotional connection, and I don't like the idea of paying for someone to like me. If it works for people, hell yeah, but I need the real thing.

[anaxie]

That is a shame. You should see a therapist about that.

You cant fix cruel bitches that 180 or the abomination of having children.

Its best to acknowledge im happier alone where i can do whatever i want whenever i want with whomever i want

[Xandrigity]

I cant do relationships. Been there i hate people and hate doing things to appease others sucking away any leisure time

Someday, even with that attitude I’m hopeful you can find that special person who makes you happy.

Sex with intamacy is like nothing else in the world.

[Kathandira]

To put thing in a rational perspective.

There is a time for all things. There is a time for cooking at home. There is a time for grabbing an inexpensive bite to eat. There is a time to fancy it up and go to a place that might be a little more expensive just to treat yourselves.

Insisting to eat at a place that costs over $100 per person on a regular basis is not in the realm of feasibility for everyone. However, if you want to go out and hit up that nice steak house and blow a bit of cash on a nice experience, but your partner can't afford their share, is lame.

In my situation, I have to pay all the bills in the house since my g/f makes less than me. I just ask her to put away about $500 a month into our savings, and i'll take care of the finances. Yeah, I pay about 3x as much as she does a month, but it doesn't hurt me financially. Her saving $400 a month goes towards emergency funds, and fun stuff funds. Since I have her doing that, we can afford to blow a bit of cash and go out for a fancy night once in a while if we like.

There is a super sophisticated word in English that some people in relationships seem to never have learned.

"Compromise"

[anaxie]

Definitely nothing wrong with it imo. I still don't get why prostitution is illegal in the US. If it were legal at least federal or state governments could regulate it to keep it as safe and clean as possible. People are going to do it anyway, might as well tax it and make some money.

Personally, I couldn't hire an escort or prostitute. I would just get depressed after. I need that emotional connection, and I don't like the idea of paying for someone to like me. If it works for people, hell yeah, but I need the real thing.

Just get a venezualian escort and have her moan and groan while u have no clue whats shes saying other than
Other than her language as she rides you like a rodeo

[melodramocracy]

Having standards doesn't make dating prostitution.

Are you not expecting a level of compensation to coincide with your relations?

[shinyteethqt]

i've used escorts for all of my marriage and many years prior.

The whole point isn't about dmg or no dmg. in my case, yes my SO doesn't know about it. But the reality is, I have some needs and desires that I don't think I would want to do to a loved one. But given the high pressure and anxiety of my profession, sometimes these fantasies are a very effective way to help me reset.

Mind you, i find a high end escort very different from a $150 prostitute offering BJs in a parking lot.


All i can say is, that paying that $800-1000/hr experience to fulfill my fantasy to relieve some stress is well worth it and has helped me further my profession.


Am i proud of it? Absolutely not, but i believe i feel that way due to social stigmas. Do i love my wife any less? No, but there are things that i like to do that i would not want to do to a loved one ....am i lucky i can afford to pay to fulfill these "desires" yes, and i am aware not everyone can do that.

[melodramocracy]

Sex with intamacy is like nothing else in the world.

Yep. The ups and downs of co-existing with someone on every level make life interesting.

[Freighter]

Are you not expecting a level of compensation to coincide with your relations?

No, I'm expecting them to be able to afford the same things as I do. If they can't go with me to Malaysia when I go there because it costs too much then they're poor, which just isn't going to work out in the long run. I'm not going to pay for their costs every time we're going somewhere. They should have a stable income themselves.

[anaxie]

Someday, even with that attitude I’m hopeful you can find that special person who makes you happy.

Sex with intamacy is like nothing else in the world.

Im in my mid thirties after a half dozen longterm relationships and a hundred or so escorts. That special person is myself.

I live a drama nag free life.

Maybe ill do the doshes. Maybe ill mow
Maybe ill longplay a game or just sleep all day

Maybe ill buy steak maybe ill order pizza non stop.

Whos gonna bitch. No one. And that is priceless.

[Kathandira]

You cant fix cruel bitches that 180 or the abomination of having children.

Its best to acknowledge im happier alone where i can do whatever i want whenever i want with whomever i want

You could learn something I learned, which lead me to almost 10 happy years with the same person.

"Stop looking for what you want, and learn what you need."

Everyone wants their perfect model of a partner, but once you learn that it is an impossible expectation, you start realizing the type of person you actually need.

As for children, 10 years strong and I have yet to have a child. I'm 36, no children. It can be avoided with a bit of wise decision making.

[melodramocracy]

i've used escorts for all of my marriage and many years prior.

The whole point isn't about dmg or no dmg. in my case, yes my SO doesn't know about it. But the reality is, I have some needs and desires that I don't think I would want to do to a loved one. But given the high pressure and anxiety of my profession, sometimes these fantasies are a very effective way to help me reset.

Mind you, i find a high end escort very different from a $150 prostitute offering BJs in a parking lot.


All i can say is, that paying that $800-1000/hr experience to fulfill my fantasy to relieve some stress is well worth it and has helped me further my profession.


Am i proud of it? Absolutely not, but i believe i feel that way due to social stigmas. Do i love my wife any less? No, but there are things that i like to do that i would not want to do to a loved one ....am i lucky i can afford to pay to fulfill these "desires" yes, and i am aware not everyone can do that.

Ask your wife if it's ok to shit on her chest, you might be surprised at the answer.

/kidding!!!

[AkundaMrdal]

Yeah but a girlfriend will learn what you like and where to touch over time

If you are lucky for the right one, otherwise you might end up with a dead fish in the bed. A good escort can learn you aswell. I visited few times a married and well preserved 41yo who did it mostly for fun and had only few customers per week. She was a great teacher too.

[Doctor Amadeus]

Jealous that I can actually afford to have standards instead of crawling for others?

Are you fucking serious. What exactly would be behind this idea concerning your value as it relates to others?

Because if it’s just because you have it and no other reason you are in for a life full of disappointment.