"You have been matched!"

[Independent voter]

Get the match to come to you so you don't have to travel. Tell him you'll make it worth his while.

[Deleted]

My girldfriend lives over 50miles from me, not really an issue. only a 1hour 30 drive or an hour by train.

[Souflikar]

You must live in a terribly congested traffic area. Anyway, just message the match and tell him or her to come to you. Problem solved.

[rayden54]

Meet halfway if distance is a problem?

If that were here, that'd mean meeting along the interstate somewhere in the middle of nowhere.

Fastest route is 57 minutes according to the maps I'm looking at, if you push beyond the speed limit that can easily be done in 45 minutes.

I can see it now. Sorry officer the people on the internet told me I should drive 85.

[Gamdwelf]

That moment on dating sites when the 'system' has found a match for you only to realise they're like 40+ miles away! Does this regularly happen to you?

Are you complaining about getting matches again?

Some of us meet girls at the gay bar only to discover they live 180 miles away. Ok man don't complain you could get 40 miles in your wheel chair.

[LiiLoSNK]

If that were here, that'd mean meeting along the interstate somewhere in the middle of nowhere.
I can see it now. Sorry officer the people on the internet told me I should drive 85.

Roadside picnic.

[Freighter]

If that were here, that'd mean meeting along the interstate somewhere in the middle of nowhere.
I can see it now. Sorry officer the people on the internet told me I should drive 85.

Don't pretend that you don't go over the speed limit ever.

[Milchshake]

I miss those good old fashioned love stories. Where a young couple overcomes insurmountable obstacles in the name of true love.

Minnlienal love stories just suck. All these tools and technology to find other people ... die in the hands of bullshit rationalizations.

[Moralgy]

That moment on dating sites when the 'system' has found a match for you only to realise they're like 40+ miles away! Does this regularly happen to you?

Closest I've got a match is 60 miles. I live in a retirement area and it kinda sucks.

[Doctor Amadeus]

Yep got matched with a Helen from Billings Montana. So we talked chatted eventually met up. It was great.

I also keep getting matches for Scientologist and my friend Dan who Scientologist keeps try to get me and his Sister who’s a Scientologist on a date. It’s either a sign or EHarmoney is trying to tell me something.

I think 40 miles isn’t so bad.

[Toronto]

Do you really think that you will find a pair on such a site?

[rogueMatthias]

40 miles?

In London I'm like "Hmm could be the love of my life.. but I would have to travel on the Northern Line.... " *unmatch*

[Deleted]

I don't do long distance relationships... Had 3 all terrible and all ended due to distance

Wierd, almost every study shows that a bit of space and distance keeps a relationship going. I mean cohabitation is one of the prime reasons relationship fail and from personal experience I can vouche for that. Once you see her/him and they see you every second of the day you won't be able to be on "your best" and she/he will always compare you from back when you started dating saying "you changed". Being 90%+ of the time with your SO is just bad, very bad and once you break up will leave you with real scars. That's why moderation is important, even in dating and relationships.

[Zephire]

What are you complaining about?! You get a match.

Well, I know people who lived some 100 km apart who started dating and eventually moved in with each other. You gotta see the possibility!

[Serenity91]

Even if there was a highway from the door of house A to B that would be well over the speed limit

I usually drive between 130 and 180 kph on highways, it's not really unreasonable considering we're talking about an average of 80 mph.

[Svisalith]

I usually drive between 130 and 180 kph on highways, it's not really unreasonable considering we're talking about an average of 80 mph.

Maybe not unreasonable in your country

[Deleted]

Wierd, almost every study shows that a bit of space and distance keeps a relationship going. I mean cohabitation is one of the prime reasons relationship fail and from personal experience I can vouche for that. Once you see her/him and they see you every second of the day you won't be able to be on "your best" and she/he will always compare you from back when you started dating saying "you changed". Being 90%+ of the time with your SO is just bad, very bad and once you break up will leave you with real scars. That's why moderation is important, even in dating and relationships.

Depends on the space - I don't want somebody 24 7 but neither do I want somebody I only see twice a month which usually always happened

[Deleted]

No, I can't imagine putting myself on such a site since I am not on sale.

Sorry if I offend anyone with this, but I find it kinda sad to have to offer myself like that to random people.

[Gamdwelf]

Depends on the space - I don't want somebody 24 7 but neither do I want somebody I only see twice a month which usually always happened

Humble brag me daddy.

[Deleted]

Humble brag me daddy.

I don't even understand this sentence