you're allowed preferences on someone that could potentially be your life partner. Expecting people to fuck you is some incel bullshit.
you're allowed preferences on someone that could potentially be your life partner. Expecting people to fuck you is some incel bullshit.
Preferences? I don't mind, we all do. I prefer either very tiny or very tall over average *shrug*
Demands? Ironically, I automatically assume it's an extremely close-minded and judgmental person and not approach.
People who qhine that they do not meet the desired physical attributes of the opposite sex are displaying an attribute that is almost universally deemed to be a turn off... A lack of confidence.
If someone doesn't want to date me, fine, I move on.
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Your fake alpha bullshit is very revealing. Everyone sees right through it, and we all know you are lonely.
I mean I'm 5-10" and I prefer short girls but height isn't really a deal breaker either way. Kinda shallow to dismiss someone because of that but people are people.
The reason they call it the American Dream is because you have to be asleep to believe it.- George Carlin
Someone else's standards mean absolutely nothing to me.
My exes. It's sadder than that. But I think it's got more to do with the fact that I chose the wrong romantic partners and I didn't act on my strong points.
However, what I think is taller men have it easier in the sense that they can make a better first impression and can convey an air of confidence without acting on it, just by standing.
But in the long term, people will like you for who you are, not by your distance to the ceiling.
Never had received any comments in regards to my height. The few women that have described me said that what makes me stand out amongst the other dudes in our circle is my bruteish character and looks that somehow makes them think of myself as a "real man", whatever that means, even though I'm generally shy around women and have no game.
People can do whatever they want so naturally I don't care.
I don't mind people having preferences, mostly because we all do. But I do feel it becomes a little silly once you put an arbitrary number on it. Like if I girl says "I only date men that are 6 feet tall!", I start to think "Why 6 feet? Why not 5'11"?".
I have less respect for an absolute statement, rather than a more open statement. "I prefer to date men taller than me, but I won't rule out anything!" <-- That is such a better statement!
Basically this, except men get called "shallow" a lot of times when they have physical preferences, which annoys me.
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I haven't really thought about it, but I feel the same way as you on this. That'd be like a guy that likes big breasts saying "I only date women with 34 Ds".
What on earth is wrong with having 'make or breaks'? We have those kind of standards for EVERYTHING.
I'm 6'2, I avoid girls taller than me and have a preference at around 5'3
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