As a tank, I find myself enjoying the slower undergeared dps in my heroics. Granted, they sometimes take longer, the general attitude of the players is alot better and easier to deal with. I tanked on my prot paladin for close to a year and just started on my warrior...after playing with macros and such I have a nice understanding of how to play. However I somehow still get yelled at even if things are beyond my control. Here are some examples:
H-UK, Basically for each pull...I que up cleave, charge in, heroic throw, TC and do all my other stuff. First few pulls go ok and then the geared dps and by geared dps...I mean the arrogant mage who has all tier 9 and every badge epic (strangely not one raid epic) decides to start pulling. He burns up his CD's and fires an Missile Barrage at one of my secondary targets...crits it for 13k and bitches because I am a shit tank because my thunderclap can't outthreat his Arcane Powered Missile Barrage. After that he starts pulling with blizzard and dies about 3 times. Honestly, I do not mind other people pulling...it doesnt bother me so long as its reasonable and doesnt complicate things. Hunters that MD pull? Love it. Mage doing a single pull with maybe an ice lance? No problem. Mage pulling a group of 4 with blizzard and then blinking in the opposite direction as me? Not good.
The problem isn't even the pulling, just the general behavior and attitude. It seems like the more gear people get, the more impatient that they get. I have even adapted a no taunting policy on those that rub me the wrong way. Another example: I said brb, fixing something on my desktop. DK decides to single pull by death gripping and then standing near me and dropping death and decay. He of course dies 10 seconds before I came back...and then blasts into me calling me a shit tank who sucks at aggro. Apparently I must of missed the talent that allows me to tank with WoW minimized. So from that point on, I refused to taunt off of him...oh and trust me...he died alot. I dont know what it is with DK's...but they cant seem to not death grip. Death Grip is fine, in a situation where there are 3 melee mobs and 1 caster...I welcome it. (Old kingdom slingers come to mind) but when they are gripping mobs that are right next to me...I want to punch them in the face.
With the lower geared people, I dont seem to get this problem. They maintain an attitude that they actually seem grateful to be in the heroic and arent in a huge hurry to get things done. Its almost like...once people are decked out in their free welfare tier 9...they get this attitude where they are doing me or anyone else a favor by being there. You aren't, as you can easily be replaced. Sure I can be replaced too but tanks are a little harder to find.