Okay I got my DK to 80 2 years ago now, I didnt really play him at all once I hit 80. I recently picked him up and geared him to be able to tank heroics, one for fast queues so I could gear faster and because I wanted to see if I liked it, which I did.
So I do about 10 heroics with no real problems, I'm not defense capped but I still manage to do heroics such as Forge of Souls with only a minor issue on the last boss (those crazy phantom blasts).
Today I finally got defense capped by buying things like the Stoneguard Band and chucking a cheap defense gem in there. The first heroic I go into all I get is a load of lame whining. 'Tank undergeared' 'Lol 23k hp?'. And throughout the instance just whine after whine after QQ after QQ from the group. I dont lose aggro once but sure my avoidance isnt brilliant because im in crafted blues. But all I get is flak throughout the instance, things like 'Noob tank' 'Go suck your mum's ****' despite me trying my best, popping Unbreakable Armor whenever I can, Icebound fortitude and the likes.
I dont see why the World of Warcraft community does not open its arms to people gearing up, sure they all want tanks to be in full ICC 25 heroic gear, but how the heck else am I gonna gear? Do normals till I have 50k HP? I doubt it.
Now does anyone else get this kind of flak when they go into heroics? Because I am just sick to death of it all. I've managed to tank Forge of Souls heroic without being defense capped but now all I get is **** when I try and do Culling of Stratholme? (Which I tanked just the day before without being defense capped, funnily enough).