You know what I love? The fact that many of the "elitists" in this thread are WotLK heroes.
I've raided every expansion to boot, do I care that someone else is in the same/better gear than me? No, I don't.
I really, REALLY, do not understand the mentality of these want-to-be-hardcore people, who will raid 3-4 nights a week for a couple of hours, and due to this, think they are entitled to be a special little snowflake.
Unless you're pushing for a world top-100 guild, you're a casual. Invest the hours they do into their raids, and I might take you seriously.
For those WotLK heroes - raiding in TBC could be a nightmare. Trying to gear up new recruits, by heading back into content you have long since cleared was boring. I was in Sunwell before it got nerfed, working on M'uru. It burnt people out, massively. Do you know how difficult it was to recruit a person, in said role, at that high gear level?
Stop complaining that somebody has the same gear as you. It's cosmetic. People with an ounce of intelligence know that where it really matters, is when you're standing in front of a boss, and you're surpassing the person in the same gear in regards to Damage Done, and Damage Per Second. If this isn't enough for you, time to uninstall WoW. It's not the Sims, where you make your character the prettiest it can be, the idea of the raid gear, is to increase your character across all levels, not purely for raid environments. I'm sure that when you do your daily heroic, you don't unequip all your ilvl277/284 gear to do it in ilvl200 gear? As many of you have said, raid gear is for..raiding, so why do your daily heroic in it?
tl:dr - you're not special little flowers, you don't have the "right" to anything. You play by Blizzards Rules. Intelligent people enjoy not gearing up new recruits in old content, time for you too as well.