sometimes we just want to rush it, because we feel something strnog about, but well, a true love and an honest relationship isn't made of a person pushing and pressuring the other to make it work, all on one side. so if you want it to work, you need to take baby steps. the last thing you wanna do is put her against a wall, and have her feel it (pressure) even before the relationship start and little after you met. wouldn't give a nice impression if it were me, iamgine the pressure on other matters!
keep showing interest in her FRIENDSHIP above all, treat with kindness and respect, hear her, listen to her, understand her. you want to know her before you go further, you heart begs for more, but you must first learn yourself if it's really her that you want, or that you just felt her awsome, beautiful, and a nice person. that are millions in the world with the same qualities. give yourself time, respect yourself, hear your thoughts, and your instinct, above all, remember a bad call from your heart can cause you a lot of pain. learn more about here, she may be an amazing person, but you don't know all about her.
give time to know how she reacts to specific situations, give time to see how strong she is, or how easily she breaks (you don't really want to break her down after you start a relationship, you need to know the limits of how far you can push, when you need to push in an argument), does she think too much, does she like things simple, does she prefer a take-it-slow or an act-first-think-last, etc.
i hope this helps. don't let yourself down and back on weed, it will only make you waste yourself and disrespect yourself, and possibly, lose opportunities.
best of luck to you!