"I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints." --Billy Joel
"When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down "happy". They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” --John Lennon
Here saved the effort of looking
It's gotten to the point where I just do what my dad does and refuse to be in the picture or deliberately screw it up by doing something goofy.