I just had a discussion with a friend of mine about this subject, and well it didn't end well...
Basicly i just spent the past hour and abit speaking to my friend who was running the Zul Gurub instance. His group was pretty bad, they ended up wiping often. Out of about 13 wipes my friend ran back about 4 times. Expected the healer to ress him, during the start of the instance, the first healer (as he left) complained that he was annoyed because people weren't running back.
After a few bosses were down, my friends group wiped again. I noticed that he was just sitting there waiting for a ress. I jokingly said "your lazy man" then he asked why, i explained, because he wasn't running back, that's why i said he was lazy.
Then he gives me the excuse "the priest has the ability to ress. Blizzard wouldn't give them that ability to ress if they didn't want them to use it."
I then explain to him, that it is still lazy of him. Why should the healer have to run back and you not? Why do you rely on the healer to ress you, when you could just run back. He throws in the whole because it's an ability they have.
So i got smart towards him and explained "ok, if the priest has this ability. And only the priest runs back after a wipe. It takes him two minutes to get you guys, and now he has to spend 40 seconds ressing the rest of the party, so instead of a 2 min run from the graveyard the priest is spending 2 mins and 40 seconds to continue the run."
Then my friend goes "he could just use mass ress....."
I then catch him out and go "you got the guild perk, you could run back and use mass ress...."
Then my friend plays stupid and goes "he has the alliance mount, why you talking about mass ress for..."
I stop him there, alittle confused on why he brought up the mount, then i try to explain that he was the one who brought up mass ress, and my actual words was why does the healer have to run back and spend another 40 seconds to ress you guys....
Then he said "i can't stand this" threw some fit, Alt f4'd Wow, punched the wall, then left the room and went home. I guess he didn't like being proven wrong... :S (unsure what came over my friend).
Anyways, do other people get annoyed when the rest of their group wont run back and ask for a ress?
Or do other people agree with my friend, that if they got the ability to ress that they should be the only ones to run back?