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    Girlfriend's horse getting put down.

    Hey guys, i need some help right now. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years today. But her horse is gonna be put down do to kidney failure. Now before all you go "It's just a horse" well her dad is an abusive alcoholic, and her mom is a psychotic B*tch, so she has had no one there for her before me. Im trying to do everything i can, I told her that I can come out there to be with her when he gets put down but she flat out refused, and when i asked if i could do anything she just said "Kill me" so now all im getting are texts about how she wants to die.

    What can i do to help her?

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    Be there to support her, she probably wants you to regardless of what she says.

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    I live on a farm we gota put down horses all the time get over it and make some jello.

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    You'll probably just need to be there, probably not a ton you can say or do. Time will do most of the work.

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    Go to her. I know she said no, but she needs someone there. Also talk to her about the suicide threats. That's not good and she needs help for it. Next thing you know, she'll be saying she'll kill herself when you want to break up... Anyway, go to her and try to get her some professional help too. Good luck.

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    Buy her a new horse.

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    Buy her a new horse

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    so, he posted in the wrong forum, a moderator will move the thread, stop with the "omgz you posted on a wow subforum, you must be talking about Jaina and his Palomino!"

    imo, tell her that you care a lot about her, and that you are worried, and you will be there for whenever she needs you

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    Whatever you do, don't ask her "Why the long face?" trust me, common mistake. More common than you'd think even though you think it's funny at the time..... (thinks back pensively).....
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    My bad for posting it in the wrong section. I was kinda frantic to post this thread. Well she turned her phone off now, so Idk. I hope she doesn't get all suicidal, because if anyone should die it should be all the people making cold sarcastic remarks on this thread. Good to know there aren't any real people out there.

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    Is it just me or do all girls who are posted about on here have crazy parents and over the top emotions.

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    Just hold her hand, tell her you love her and everything will be ok, and then hug her while she cries it out... Sounds like it must be awful for her My sympathy's are really with her ><

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    Be there. She doesnt want you to ask her if she wants you there, got it ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bullet1519 View Post
    My bad for posting it in the wrong section. I was kinda frantic to post this thread. Well she turned her phone off now, so Idk. I hope she doesn't get all suicidal, because if anyone should die it should be all the people making cold sarcastic remarks on this thread. Good to know there aren't any real people out there.
    If she put down the phone and she was saying she wants to die, I suggest you head over there fucking sharpish and make sure she doesn't do anything rash. ><

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    Quote Originally Posted by MSTRKRFT View Post
    I live on a farm we gota put down horses all the time get over it and make some jello.
    lmao...sorry

    OT: it can be hard to lose a pet/companion you are close to. just reasure her it will no longer be suffering and that she should be happy that she and her horse had a good relationship and your certian it loved being with her....but animals, like people, get old and nothing lives forever.
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    Ignore all the morons here. Just be with her, no matter what she says, as much as you can. And if you are getting texts about that, it actually means she doesnt want to do that. Buying horse may be kinda impossible, but think about other animals, dogs/cats can do miracles in those situations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antherios View Post
    so, he posted in the wrong forum, a moderator will move the thread, stop with the "omgz you posted on a wow subforum, you must be talking about Jaina and his Palomino!"

    imo, tell her that you care a lot about her, and that you are worried, and you will be there for whenever she needs you
    Basicly what he said.
    Funny how most people can't respect that other people maybe feel something different about an animal. Big bloody shame on you !

    The thing here is that maybe that horse was the girls best friend in so many situations.
    She needs your support right now. Big time. More than ever. It's your time to show you're a man (:

    Just do whatever you feel is good for her and ignore the ignorant bastards that have enough in their own pity life...
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    Comfort her in anyway you can, and make sure she actually doesn't want you to be there when it gets put down. Sometimes no does mean yes..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Antherios View Post
    so, he posted in the wrong forum, a moderator will move the thread, stop with the "omgz you posted on a wow subforum, you must be talking about Jaina and his Palomino!"

    imo, tell her that you care a lot about her, and that you are worried, and you will be there for whenever she needs you
    Quote Originally Posted by Antherios View Post
    Jaina and his Palomino![/I]"
    Jaina is a HE?!?! ....

    OT : I would just tell her to Relax ... he'll be gone to a better place .... unless he's been treated like hell

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    She might not thank you at first but tell her to grow up. The reality can hurt sometimes, there's being upset and then there's just acting like a (insert word here). Texting you about how she wants to die? Welcome to planet earth, people pass away (sadly but it's life). Pets die, we die, we get ill, diseases, tornadoes, earthquakes bla bla bla.

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