Inspired by the "Your parents....together or divorced?" poll, btw.
I've been with my wife for 7 years, married 5, and separated for about 7 months now. We're currently going through the process of getting a divorce, which she filed for. We've both signed the final decree, but other than that she hasn't given me much info about what's going on. This morning she emails me and says, "Wednesday morning I have court and then we will officially be divorced."
Since our separation I've had intercourse with a few women in an attempt to get my mind off of my situation, it sorta worked for a couple of days. I don't really have any emotion about what's going on right now, but I know on Wednesday when she emails me and says that we're officially divorced I'm probably going to freak out.
My question for those of you that have been in similar situations; how did you deal with it?
Deep down I still love her but I know there is no hope for us. Harumph.